2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
How cool it is to use cosmetics. Literally once - and there is no dry skin, no dark circles under the eyes. But it is necessary - there are no more serious problems. A pair of jars, three bottles. "Krex-pax", "abra-kadabra" and you have a great look. And if you also do makeup, you can go to Hollywood, no less!
Another thing is the inner world and how we feel and, at times, present ourselves. But why? Why can't these magicians create miraculous creams in order to be able to smooth, even out, soften mood, emotional reactions and behavior?
So, I would smear … something … with a thick layer of cream - and there is no depression, anxiety, a smile grows on your face, and good in your soul … The birds are chirping, the music is playing! And immediately there is a lot of strength, a lot of desires, high mental impulses, and then … ahead - successes, achievements, awards, if you like!
But no! You cannot smear your mood, you cannot smear aggression, and you cannot smooth out your behavior with a single jar. And even if wizards make-up artists create for you a man-made magical image "a la TV star" or "Not you, by chance - performed this hit?" inside, there, deeply and will sit "that same" - which would not hurt to somehow smooth it out.
And even psychologists don't have magic potions. Here's your time!
This is because for successful work with a specialist psychologist, as, in general, and for successful work with a make-up artist or cosmetologist, you need to clearly understand what I want, what I risk and what, in fact, I go for.
And believe me - pumping up your lips, making your breasts the right size, going to fitness - all this is much easier. And people also think less about the consequences, about the process and about what they risk in general. Before going to miraculous sessions with a psychologist with a magical effect, out of nowhere grows a desire to objectively assess your need, to designate it, to understand “what will it give me” …
If only everyone was so careful about experimenting with their appearance. After all, changing your face does not mean changing your perception of the world. To change from the outside does not mean to compensate “from the inside”. External changes will never give harmony, spiritual comfort, if you do not work on your condition.
Next, the principle comes into play (so we will conditionally call this setting) - I can handle it myself or I need a specialist. Everything here is as simple as in cosmetology.
In working on oneself, everyone can achieve high results on their own and there is nothing to hide it behind. But! The process requires a lot of internal preparation, deep introspection, a long period of time for reading specialized literature, watching certain films, communicating with people, however, such "self-education" is fraught with the emergence of more and more new problems, since introspection (in itself) is dangerous.
In the mind of a person, the independent alignment of certain life situations in one line is like a snowball - one "old" problem is followed by another, a third, and here are new ones - it is necessary to tighten something else …
Although working with a specialist psychologist does not give a 100% guarantee, it is more focused, purposeful, effective, and controlled. The client is, so to speak, "under supervision"
It is the same in cosmetology. Some use creams, others trust their appearance to cosmetologists, strictly follow the specific instructions of a specialist and get the result they want to achieve!
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The moral of this fable is this: although the idea of a quick result, instant changes, a wonderful transformation is tempting - the personality and "I" require special attention, a careful and careful approach.
Look for your psychologist, under whose strict guidance tomorrow you will not have to look for ways to compensate for your state of mind with bright transformations. Rather, internal transformations "require" certain details externally!
Be happy! Good luck!
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