3 Mistakes In Dealing With Illness

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

A serious illness is not a flu or a chronic rhinitis, it is not a migraine or a cough. This is what threatens a person's life - it is not treated, it is difficult to heal, or healing is perceived as a miracle. A serious illness devours the personality and destiny of a person, much will not happen, even more will become inaccessible.

A serious illness is able to share a person with many people - loved ones, relatives and loved ones, with his “that, normal” life. She can take away a lot and give nothing in return - life for a person can become uncomfortable, tied to taking drugs and procedures, it may happen that a person will devote all his free time and the remaining strength to raising money for these drugs and procedures.

All life is rapidly rushing somewhere, something is happening with friends and relatives, and a seriously ill person is at a dead center. At this point, suffering is of infinite magnitude - nervous breakdowns, tantrums, screams, quarrels and conflicts, of course, this is a cry from the soul for help. Because the strength is running out, and the suffering is only gaining momentum.

It is in such a desperate situation that mistakes are made that become fatal. And a small opportunity that could lead to positive dynamics is finally closed.

Mistake # 1

Deal with the diagnosis. Endlessly go to doctors and take tests, look for someone who will say what you want to hear. To talk about medical error or negligence along and across.

Consequences - an irretrievably lost time, when it was still possible to do something good for yourself, when the process could become reversible and you could really restore your health by 100%.

What to do - to pass tests in two independent laboratories. If you don't like the first doctor, go to the second. Give yourself two options. And then give yourself time for treatment - 2-3 months - only after this period make an intermediate conclusion.

Mistake # 2

Fight disease. It is endless to pretend that nothing happened, that everything is the same as before. Ignore a prescribed regimen or diet. Wearing a mask "I'm cool, I will overcome everyone", constantly repeating "you have to be strong."

Consequences - irretrievably lost time and opportunities for building a relationship with the figure of Disease, for finding answers - why did this crisis happen in my life, what value does Disease bring to me, what needs to be rebuilt within myself and my life?

What to do - to build relationships with the figure of Disease - methodically, systematically, through personal psychotherapy, constellations, art therapy. Strictly adhere to the prescribed regimen or diet. This is what can save lives, even if you never know about it. Our organs and the body as a whole are able to heal themselves if they “feel” that the stress level is reduced, the hormonal background is leveled out and you take care of yourself. You become allies.

Mistake # 3

Join the fight with doctors. It is endless to pretend that you are an innocent victim of medical arbitrariness. Everything that happens to you is a terrible and unfair mistake because of stupid doctors. Or worse, ignore doctors, advice and treatment.

Consequences - irretrievably lost time and opportunities for a radical change in the situation, movement towards death.

What to do - build relationships with the figure of Disease, with yourself and with doctors. Find a solution to the deep inner conflict, fears and beliefs that keep you moving towards death. Or vice versa - to build an open and respectful relationship with Death.