2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Narcissism red flags
As the relationship with the narcissist develops, you may begin to see stronger warning signs - red flags:
🚩Big lie
You notice it, but if you try to find out the truth, you never get a straight answer. He turns over the meaning of the question or accuses you of distrust.
🚩The accusation
If you are trying to discuss a problem, the narcissist uses the situation as an argument to accuse you of constant "fights". Or it uses silence and ignorance as a way to punish you for confrontation.
🚩Gaslighting
Inspires that there was no situation when you know for sure that it is not. The goal is to make you doubt your own reality, to destroy your beliefs. As a result, your whole life may be in doubt, you fall into a veil, a fog of life's misunderstandings.
🚩Supervision
Forces to ask permission before making plans with others. Controls you, or, conversely, allows you to do whatever you want, but then finds a way to take revenge.
🚩Insulation
He tries to make you see your family and friends less. May interfere openly or covertly with you from dating. For example, it creates situations in their presence that force you to refuse communication in order to avoid negativity or consequences.
🚩 Distortions in relationships
They seem one-sided. In them you: try your best, but always make mistakes; working on yourself and pulling relationships like a locomotive, but nothing works out for you; everything you do is not enough.
🚩Voltage
You don't feel at ease and relaxed around him. It's like walking on a shell and waiting for him to pounce on you again.
🚩Manipulation
Influences behavior implicitly. It uses your flaws and vulnerabilities against you at every opportunity.
🚩Decreased self-esteem
You start to feel inadequate, unattractive, worthless and blame yourself for everything that happens. You really want to fix the situation, but you feel your powerlessness.
In the following articles, I will show the "red flags" with specific examples.
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