Money: What Are You Missing Out On In This Thread?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

The topic of money is relevant to many. And then the question arises, how can psychotherapy help your wallet fill?

Very important when working with this topic is how you formulate your request, how you talk about money, about the problems and tasks in this topic, what words. For example, you can say “I don’t have a good relationship with money” or “money is slipping through my fingers”, “money is only enough for food” and then, perhaps, it is worth taking a closer look at what important relationships are being discussed at a deep level, with whom what happens if there is more money in your life, what will you spend it on? Are you allowing yourself too little? What do you really have permission for inside? Do you truly appreciate yourself, do you consider yourself worthy of a better life? And what is this best life, what does it look like, what does it include? Maybe there are fears, anxiety about the future, how will relations with loved ones, in the family, with friends change if there is a dramatic increase in money? Will you be rejected by those whose financial situation has not improved for the better?

You can ask yourself a lot of questions about money, much more, these are just examples. And honest answers to these or similar questions may already clarify something about the money in your life. In order to change something, you will need a deeper work on yourself, it is good if with the help of a professional. It's faster and more efficient this way.

Money has its own characteristics, it is always in adults, and if you have problems with money, you may need to pay attention to working with childhood injuries in order to raise a healthy adult part, an adult who knows how, loves and, most importantly, wants to manage money. What was your childhood like? With loving, considerate parents, or otherwise?

Another feature of money is always in motion, they come for something, for something. How clearly do you imagine why you need money? And what do you feel in your body, what emotions do you feel? It often happens that people want something because it is right, out of their heads, there is an idea “I want money”, but deep down there is no contact with their needs, and then money is difficult and has nowhere to come. How much is this about you? Money is fun, can you?

I would also like to mention that such shock traumas occur in life, after which it is very difficult (without support and professional help) to remain in this reality, and the money is only with those who are here, who are grounded, who are in contact with reality, money is always here and now.

If it is safe for a person to be in this world, there is reliance on his own strength, the ability to take responsibility for his life, actions, if the injuries are successfully worked through, the chances of getting rich are greater. And how are you? Have you experienced threats to your life or those of your loved ones? Worked with these traumas with a psychologist? How safe is it for you to be in this reality, or is the desire to slip away into fantasy very strong for you?

Money comes through professional activity or business. Then the questions may be as follows: what prevents you from finally opening your own business, what fears and worries are there? Is the profession, the area where you work really what you want to do? Perhaps you did not choose your education, profession, job yourself, maybe you should change it?

And one more thing, we are all part of our family system, clan, with a greater distance from the people, the inhabitants of the country. We received our life from our ancestors along with certain messages and about money too. In history, many generations of our ancestors experienced events when it was dangerous to be rich, to be with money, when they lost property, health, land, life, because someone came and took everything. The world has changed, new opportunities have appeared to earn, accumulate, invest funds, now limiting beliefs and behavioral patterns that have been passed down from generation to generation and remain unconscious can hinder and stop development in the field of money. For example, it can be such introjects (beliefs): “Keep your head down! Money is a danger! Psychotherapy will help to find out and change this.

As you can see, psychotherapy can help not only clarify something about the topic of money in your life, but also change the usual scenarios for dealing with money, even those that you do not yet realize, which means more opportunities for earning, saving money, developing your business and prosperity.