2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
I recently wrote in a blog about clearing my space of what has "sunk into oblivion"
Decluttering has a beginning, decluttering has no end …
When I collected things, from which I "grew" by 10 sizes, I thought that I would give them to people, the mood was on the rise.
And then I became very sad, not because it was so hard to part with these things.
- Although, no! It's a pity!!!
After all, I picked them up with such love, so carefully fitted them to the figure, because I always had a very big difference between the waist and the hips. I even had my own dressmaker (who, by the way, has her birthday today).
The things were only proof of my former femininity, which I gave for Life, as the Little Mermaid once gave for her magic voice for the ability to walk on earth.
I felt sad that I would never be the same as I was before.
And even if I manage to return to that size, it will be a different me.
Let not to the end, but, having flooded my space, I will experience mixed feelings:
- On the one hand, it was a pity to part with illusions, with the dream that I would again wear beautiful things of size 46, graceful boots with a tall stiletto heel.
- On the other hand, it is important to accept the given not as illusory, but as it is.
- Yes, I now look like the enchanted princess Fiona, the mother of Mummy Troll. This is the way to live with it and … rejoice!
- Yes, exactly, to rejoice in your current incarnation!
This is also worth doing with outdated relationships
- Rejoice that soon something new will come to life!
When a person does not want to lower what has died, he looks like the owner who loved his pet so much that after his death he made a stuffed animal.
I once told you a story about how a widow kept an urn with the ashes of her deceased husband in her apartment.
It is much easier to be more honest and let go of everything that has become obsolete into Space.
Everything that happened to us remains with us forever.
It is important to be able to be grateful for the lessons, to learn to answer questions to oneself
- For which you can thank what is gone:
- Relationship?
- External beauty?
- Youth?
- Friendship?
- A case that has ceased to be relevant?
- What good came in return:
- Loneliness?
- Inner beauty?
- Wisdom?
- Time?
- A place for new beginnings?
- What are the positive aspects of all this:
- Meeting with your real self?
- Depth?
- Mindfulness?
- Reboot?
- A new milestone in your life?
It is important to understand the most important thing -
Until we accept reality as it is Here and Now, we will not be able to reach a new level.
If you break up with someone you care about, do the exercises
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