2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Does the feeling sound familiar? I dare to suggest that many. When it seems that another moment and the whole world around us will simply collapse. There is a proverb among the people: "Trouble does not come alone." She always pulls a company with her, and not a small one. Some of you wondered why this happens, if life is falling, then almost all of it is obligatory?
Personally, after thinking, the following thoughts arise. The place is never empty. The void is always filled with new. If a house collapses, in its place there will be another house, a new one, even more beautiful. The same happens in life. The old way of life is crumbling to be replaced by a new image. But, I want to note that this is not the case with everyone. There are many people who have a smoother life.
Then the question arises again: "Who exactly is this happening to and why?" Let's find out.
I think that for many it is no longer a secret that our way of thinking shape our life. At that moment, when life is "destroyed" it seems to us that it happened in an instant, here he lived, more or less, a normal life and then bam, everything went to hell. In fact, it all started long before. The beginning of this path was created in our head with small images, for example: "I am tired of this work for something." Then, after a while, you think about your personal life "Something is not quite getting along with your wife / husband" and so calmly, slowly, a series of mental chains is created, which is constantly gaining speed, turning into a larger and larger tangle, which is more and more worries your head more until you finally settle there. And it is at this moment that a series of troubles occurs.
First shock, then anger, irritation, blaming everyone around, and then “Well, let everything go to hell,” that is, indifference. Approximately such a reaction to the current situation.
In this reaction, I am especially interested in the moment of indifference. Why does it arise? If you think you are tired, yes, you will be right. But, it seems to me that here it is possible and even necessary to "dig" a little deeper. The subconscious mind works very well here. In fact, many are even afraid of the stage of indifference: "Everything is crumbling for me, but I just don't care how it is?" But, in fact, you do not need to be afraid of him, but you just need to accept. If it has appeared, then it has a place to be. Why? Indifference is a certain stage of calmness, when terrible thoughts cease to disturb you and there is simply silence. And it is in this silence that you remain only with yourself, your inner world, and you have nothing to do but think about your life.
And it is precisely in such an environment that important decisions come, thanks to which a new life comes to an empty (already destroyed) place.
It is a long and arduous process, but the result is worth it. Therefore, do not be afraid of change, strive for it.
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