2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Can a psychologist fix a Soul?
This is impossible!
And why?
There is a proverb "The Master is from God, but the man is so-so!" This is not about the fact that a person is bad, this is about the fact that a professional psychologist does not allow his human warmth during a session because of the safety of his soul, therefore, at the time of listening to the client's pain, he is not quite a person, he is a specialist who knows what kind of logarithmic structure of thought can interrupt the suffering from the client's mind and direct his attention to the path of relief.
A psychologist is a person who has received knowledge about what cannot be touched, looked at, repaired with hands - this is the Soul! A person needs a person to warm up, to feel alive if times are tough, you need someone to listen, and it is not necessary at this moment to receive advice or to have your brains adjusted. Traditionally, it is believed that someone who has studied to be a psychologist is by default a sincere person.
Is this so? For example, when one day I happened to come to a psychologist with my grief, I clearly understood that he cannot be human when I needed just this, human warmth. This wonderful person was obliged to keep his distance, to follow the code of psychologists, not to violate the boundaries between himself and the client, only to help with his presence during my despair and let me speak out. Professional listening is protection from professional mourners, but has nothing to do with human warmth.
Was this help helpful? Helped! I realized that no one else will help me unless I find a way to solve my problems more effectively, less painfully, more humanly with love and care for my Soul.
Therefore, I decided to look for a method that personifies a caring mother who cares about my experiences, who will ask the right questions, conditionally embrace, comfort and show the way where the light appears through the darkness! The birth of the method took place daily and directly in the living environment, in the circle of my family and friends, for almost 14 years. Daily practice bore fruit - this is emotional resistance to the aggression of the external environment, full-fledged involvement of consciousness in real time, a subtle sense of the moment and timeliness of reaction to the needs of the environment, spiritual synchronization manifested at the everyday level in the form of foreseeing events and the main feeling of calmness, similar to an elusive feeling happiness.
How does it look, for example, at the everyday level? Recently I was preparing dinner and was expecting my husband and son-in-law from work. At some point, my hands reached for the drawer of vegetables, and I began to pick up potatoes to prepare them for frying. But at the same time, the thought penetrated me that this would be an excellent side dish for herring. I remember that I even got the taste of this dish. And what was my surprise when the guys arrived from work laid out on the table a few delicious fish, the presence of which in the evening menu we did not agree. What does this tell me? That by practicing the applied method "Spiritual Lego" you can develop your own sensitivity to the needs of the environment, in other words, have the skill of foresight, be able to be here and now, and most importantly, be in peace of mind, with a strong spirit and in an unshakable feeling of love for to yourself, people and the world.
A psychologist can be any person who enrolled in a university, for advanced training courses and will be an excellent specialist who can apply his knowledge in counseling using this or that therapy or technique. But I am not sure to be a spiritual, sensitive predictor, wise and warm-hearted.
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