2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
There are a great many of them now, the Internet is littered with their blogs, tips, webinars. Do you feel it? Everyone knows how to live. They sort out a lot of problems and problem relationships, but no one gives an example of ideal ones! Because they simply do not exist! I will allow myself to clarify, remove the veil and possibly expose.
- Create artificially using psychological techniques. This is a life stage at which you are some kind and he (your chosen one) is some kind. And you have the same goals, desires, chemistry, etc. If there is a problem and you turned for ADVICE to a trainer - a psychologist and you were lucky and he turned out to be not a charlatan, then…. He will temporarily tune you to your soul mate so that you enjoy the effect. But … this is temporary. Then both of you are either working on the relationship, if you are both interested in them and besides passion you are connected by something else. Either you run away.
- You are not alarmed that a man is engaged in life that teaches women how to live and how to treat men and takes money for it. Of course not, if you yourself do not know who you are and how you should live, then definitely a handsome man in a jacket who broadcasts smart thoughts will impress you. And you won't think that this is a boy who was offended by his mother and all women, who himself had problems in relationships and a complete misunderstanding of women, but then … he became a psychologist … And now he gathers the audience, tells beautifully how it should be, or rather, how he would like it to be. The voice of all upset men with a mission of self-affirmation, and you can also earn money.
- General formulas and advice how to eat in any business. A classic that works for everyone. For example, everyone is pleased when they are praised and supported. Everyone is pleased when your significant other looks good. And many other common points that will not correct the situation globally, will not penetrate deep into the relationship. These are superficial win-win tips, seasoning, but they can be used by anyone and everyone.
- The coach chooses the actual women's needs, throws out an understandable, accessible scheme for solving them for everyone, supplies his speech with jokes - jokes, and the housewives are delighted. Handsome man earns, because suckers are being conducted.
- Of course, there are absolute tricks. For example, when you thank a man for a small present to stimulate him to buy a large one))). But, this is only a small component of the relationship. This is more than obvious. The sad thing is that your mother didn't tell you this as a child, and some uncle is now making money on it. This is me once again to the fact that if you want a cool life, you have to develop and learn how to independently extract information.
You know that you don't need any education to become a coach or a coach in Russian. I just wanted to and became. You lacked female attention in your life, and the uncensored Internet gave this opportunity to everyone. Even if you don't know how to do anything at all, you can teach people how to live.
Take a closer look at the performances of self-taught trainers more critically and carefully. There, more time is spent on self-presentation in the style of "I am very cool!" Next comes the question "Do you want the same?" The scheme for managing a herd of sheep is the same everywhere. This is from marketing and advertising - a super science, the meaning of which is making money on getting a person to consume what he does not need.
In general, lovely women and girls, be selective. Less delight, more intelligence.
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