2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
If it were possible … What would I like to say to my little one?
1. In life there is no such thing, right or wrong. Right or wrong. Everything is subjective. Each of us has our own world. Don't waste time changing the other's world.
2. Don't try to control other people. It only destroys the relationship.
3. You will hear a lot of criticism in your life. Remember that criticism is just a person's pain. Hearing this pain, it will be much easier for you to endure criticism.
4. Nothing is eternal. Don't make eternal promises.
5. Trust people. It will sometimes be difficult, but mistrust is not even the last option. Just not an option.
6. All people are not perfect. You too. Do not even try. Perfectionism is destructive.
7. Appreciate those who love you. Even if he "throws a knife in your back." Sometimes such wounds only help to understand what is really valuable in life.
8. There will be many disappointments, partings and losses in life. It doesn't happen otherwise. Take it.
9. Be grateful to the people who helped you understand something in life. Even if it was lessons where there was pain.
10. Pain is temporary. The results of it (if you learn the lessons) are forever. Sometimes just go ahead and accept the pain.
11. Make no judgment. Rely on facts. Especially regarding the behavior and actions of people.
12. Don't use manipulation. It doesn't matter for what purpose. Instead of manipulation, be open. You become vulnerable, sometimes it becomes scary, but this is what will give you what you are trying to achieve through manipulation.
13. Do not be afraid to Love. It will not be easy on the path to Love, but it will be worth it.
What would you write to yourself little (little)?
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