WHY DO YOU HAPPEN?

Video: WHY DO YOU HAPPEN?

Video: WHY DO YOU HAPPEN?
Video: How to use HAPPEN: Advanced English Vocabulary Lesson 2024, May
WHY DO YOU HAPPEN?
WHY DO YOU HAPPEN?
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Two angels, a woman running to work, a steep staircase.

- Push, push, I say!

- The staircase is so steep, it will break to death!

- I will hedge, only the leg will break!

- Nightmare, she's at work, she's been late for three days in a row!

- Yes, and now she will also spend at least three weeks on sick leave. She will be fired later.

- So it is impossible, she will be without work, what will be done, the salary is good!

- Push I say, then I’ll explain everything, push!

The same angels, the track, two women in a service car, high speed. In front of the car - KAMAZ, loaded with logs.

- Throw the log, don't pull!

- You can kill with this log, and if it hits the frontal at speed, they will die, they have children!

- Come on, I'll take the log, they'll only get scared.

- Why so, why scare ?!

- It’s not time, then I’ll explain, after the turn, the poster will be "They are waiting for you at home!"

- Both cry, call home, how cruel!

Corporate party.

Two angels, a man, a wedding ring on his hand, a girl.

- Let him have another drink.

- Enough, he's already drunk! Look how he looks at her!

- Pour more, let him drink!

- He has a wife at home, two children, he has already lost control, he invites the girl to the hotel!

- Yes, let her, let her agree!

- Agreed, leave, just awful! The wife will find out, they will divorce!

- Yes, a quarrel can not be avoided! And so it was conceived.

Sunset, two angels.

- Well, work, continuous stress!

- You are the first day at this level? This is such a level, training by stress, you are there at your first level with books and movies, but here are those who are no longer helped by books. They have to be knocked out of their usual rut with stress in order to stop and think. How do they live, why do they live.

Here is the first woman, while she is at home, with a broken leg, she will start sewing again, and when she is fired, she will have five orders, she will not even be upset. She sewed like that in her youth, lovely sight! She has been postponing her hobby for 10 years, everyone believes that she needs to work, that social guarantees are more important than spiritual harmony and pleasure from what she loves. And sewing will bring her income even more, only with pleasure.

Of the two women who cried on the highway, one will quit in a week, realizing that her place is at home, with a child, with her husband, and not in a foreign city, to live in hotels for weeks. She will give birth to a second child, she will go to a psychologist, they cooperate with you at the first level.

- And treason, how can it go good? The family will collapse!

- Family? The family has not been there for a long time! The wife has forgotten that she is a woman, the husband drinks in the evenings, they swear, they blackmail each other with their children. This is a long process, sick, but each of them will think about it, a woman will start reading your books, will understand that she has completely forgotten about femininity, and will learn to communicate with a man in a different way.

- Will you be able to save your family?

- There is a chance! Everything will depend on them!

- What a job!

- You will get used to it, but effective! As you knock a person out of the comfort zone, so he starts to move! This is how most people work!

- And if that doesn't help?

- There is still a third level. They teach losses there. But these are completely different stories …

Life stories from the web.

Getting out of your comfort zone isn't easy. Even when it became familiar for a long time, but completely uncomfortable. It seems that you understand that you no longer want to live in the old way. And making a step towards change and changing something in your life, relationships, work is scary. The unknown is always disturbing.

Therefore, many people continue to live in frustrating circumstances in anticipation of the "last drop".

Sometimes in sessions I ask a client a question: “What do you think can happen in your life that would push you to start doing what you really want?

And very often a person answers absolutely without hesitation: "Disease." Awareness of the finiteness of his own life sometimes makes a person just start at this moment to really live. In full force. Based on their own desires and the concept of "want" and not "should". Many feature films have been shot on this topic. For example, "Knockin 'on Heaven."

Someone asks for psychological help at the time of experiencing an existential crisis or unpleasant events - parting with a partner, dismissal, etc. And in the process of therapy, one comes to the same realization that a crisis is a point of growth, a springboard, a foundation that becomes the countdown of a new stage in life, where pain will be experienced, mistakes of the past are rethought into precious experience. And the future will no longer be the same as the past.

As Haruki Murakami said, “One day the storm will end and you won't remember how you got through it. You won't even be sure if it really ended. But one thing is certain: when you get out of the storm, you will never be the person who walked into it again. Because that was his whole point."

Surely everyone has had their own "storm" in life, from which you came out as a completely different person.

Remember your such "storm" and let it instill in you the confidence that you are able to cope with any troubles in life that come your way. And take a step towards change in the role of the author of your life, and not a victim of circumstances.

I wish you all inspiration and faith in yourself.

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