What Does “my Money” Mean In The System?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Once I was on a train with a young mother. Placing the child by the window, she took the phone in her hands and began to call her relatives, in a conversation with them she did not forget to tell about her difficult and universally important mission of raising their grandson, nephew and so on. Three hours later she had a decent amount on her card, this was her way of "squeezing" money out of her relatives. At the same time, she immediately called her friends and boasted that she would finally buy herself expensive mascara and lipstick, and as soon as she arrived in Odessa, she would sit with them in a restaurant. She had enough strength and energy for everyone, she was now childish - whining, then tearfully begged, then intimidated and threatened, such an energizer. “Wow,” I thought, “how cleverly she breeds everyone and at the same time always has money.”

When I finally got my hands on the topic of money in my life, then I often remembered this story. The young mother, as we will call her, did not have any money of her own, as well as her energy and her strength. Everything was at someone else's expense - money, energy, and strength. A real icon of consumerism, the world of the dead in all its glory! As soon as changes come into her life, for example, a divorce or a major scandal, and the trickle of other people's money will end, but her own money has never been there.

It always seemed to me, as probably to the majority, that all the money that falls into their hands is already “my money”. And nifiga! Living as a consumer at someone else's expense and living on one's own energy are two different things.

In the first case, this is a codependent state, the inner Sacrifice has reached such dimensions that a person is no longer able to see anything of his own - there are no boundaries, his goals and his own path, everything alien, gratuitous - everything merges into the toilet or, as the organizers say, into the “world dead."

In the second case, when you live on your own energy - this is an adult, mature state, when the internal Motivator has grown so much that it has its own boundaries, its own goals and its own path - such a person has a force that he directs to his life and his work. That is, in this world, a person does not groan "give the bastards money!", But creates something of his own, builds a new system.

How to determine which case is yours? It turns out, by the amount of money that is open to us in the family system. What kind of money is this? This certain amount of money, to which you easily and with your energy go, is always available to you. This amount is always individual - the husband has one, the wife has another. It is from this amount that the next financial goal is planned. It is from your individual amount of money! And not from the amount of money Vasya Pupkin. This does not happen for a hundred people to have the same financial goal, simply because these people are from a hundred different family systems, each of which has its own financial constraints, individual ancestral prohibitions and family secrets associated with money.

Everything that has to do with money is extremely individual. Money is an indicator of your energy, the more money is open to you in the system, the more energy you have, the exchange with the world and the strength to create something new - a child, a book, a business direction, teaching, creativity. The more you work towards your individual financial goals, the clearer and clearer the path and objectives for you. Any work with the topic of money is a way out of the limitations in which your family system could be for centuries - and you became the first to take a step forward.