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People try to solve their psychological problems in various ways. Often with plastic surgery. But is the decision about the operation always a deliberate one? It happens that behind the urgent need to improve your appearance there are other needs - for love, acceptance, recognition. What psychological aspects should be considered before deciding on drastic measures?
If you are thinking about plastic surgery, try to analyze a few points first
- Why do you want to have the operation? What problems are you hoping to solve with her? If you have dissatisfaction with life, and it seems to you that the operation will solve the problem of loneliness, relationships, self-doubt, then you should not rush, go to a psychologist first, and perhaps, having solved your psychological problems, you will understand that the operation is not very good for you. and needed.
- Is this your desire? Either this is a friend or your man, subtly hinting or directly saying that it would not hurt you to correct something in yourself. If this desire is imposed from the outside - this is a serious reason to think - do you personally need it? And what is your relationship with someone who is willing to put you at risk to satisfy their desires?
- It is important to assess the objective need for the operation. If there are obvious physical defects that can be eliminated with the help of plastics, then there are no questions. Everything else is a very subtle point. But still - if a woman who has nursed children decided to do mammoplasty, whose breasts have really lost their shape and volume, and she wants to restore their previous forms - this desire is objectively understandable, if a 20-year-old nulliparous girl with beautiful, but small breasts wants to insert implants - with a high probability, it can be assumed that her desire to have large breasts is at the root of some kind of psychological trauma. Perhaps it was a long time ago, back in adolescence, and has long been forgotten, but in the subconscious it was deposited that small breasts are ugly. It can also be the influence of television, glossy magazines, imposing certain standards. And it happens that a person suffers from such a disorder as dysmorphomania, in which he constantly finds imaginary defects that need to be corrected, in which case the operation will definitely not solve the problem.
- How long have you decided to have an operation? If this happened quite recently, then you should not rush - often women, especially in a crisis, have a very strong desire to change something in their image. Therefore, perhaps, if you change your style, hairstyle, clothes, then this will be enough, and you will no longer want to change something radically. In any case, it is better to wait about six months and see if this desire is just as keen. Also, if there is a difficult period in your life, you should not make such an important decision right now, postpone it, give yourself the opportunity to think it over in a calm atmosphere.
- What are your expectations from the operation? If a woman in 50 expects to look 30 after a lift, she runs the risk of experiencing severe disappointment. Or, considering liposuction as an alternative to a healthy diet and exercise, may also be disappointed. It is important that expectations are real.
Dear women, If you are not sure whether to have an operation, do not rush to make a decision, think it over calmly. Remember that in this case it is especially important to measure 7 times, cut once.
If you nevertheless performed the operation, and for some reason are unhappy with the result, and you are in a serious psycho-emotional state, do not hesitate to contact a psychologist. After all, in order to find a solution to your problem, and not to make mistakes, it is extremely important to regain emotional stability and calmness.
I wish you to be beautiful with that inner beauty that illuminates and fills the outer!
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