2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
It is good when a disease affects the bodily level, proper treatment, timely medical assistance will quickly put a person on his feet, restore the body.
But it often happens the other way around - and the doctors are clever and the medicines are the best, but the disease does not recede, it progresses or remains a little quiet for decades or, having rolled with a heavy dump truck through the body and fate of a person, leaves him disabled, exhausted and lost faith in himself.
In this case, there is something more behind the disease. And the disease itself is transformed into a huge and influential figure that determines the rhythm and quality of life not just for one person, but possibly for the whole family. Metaphorically, it can be compared to a black hole devouring everything that a person has - opportunities, time, youth, relationships, future, money, dreams, hopes.
And just such a figure of Disease - dangerous, merciless, black, can carry in its essence a generic influence - a deep unconscious connecting everyone with everyone, transmitting a message along invisible thin threads, which still needs to be courageous, recognized, understood and found a solution.
What ancestral histories can manifest themselves through the disease:
1. Deep systemic pain, the history of many losses, unborn or dead children, unfulfilled hopes, lost faith and severe betrayal, the inability to realize oneself and show one's talents, someone could not be saved
2. Systemic guilt, history of deception and theft, murder and betrayal
3. Systemic division, history of ignoring both victims, victims, victims, and aggressors, murderers, executioners and tormentors
4. Systemic betrayal, a history of severe betrayal that resulted in both death and severe depression and loss
5. Systemic secrecy, stories of sexual abuse, incest, illegitimate, family murders
6. Systemic prohibitions, stories where everyone suffers and grieves, because the joy of life is prohibited
7. Systemic struggle, the history of rejection of a kind, parents, society, ancestors, who were some for the red, and who for the white. Fight against those who are different, have a different point of view, speak a different language, up to self-destruction or genocide
DISEASE AND ITS INFLUENCE ON HUMAN LIFE AND FAMILY SYSTEM
What do we think about the disease?
is something that will never happen to me, -it will happen to someone else, but not to me
- the main thing is to carry, - so as not to get sick
- illness is a punishment for something
- I did something and I was punished for it
- illness is something terrible and terrible
- the worst thing in life is to get sick
- if I get sick, I will become useless to anyone
- patients are not needed by anyone, they are a burden for everyone
All these toxic attitudes and hundreds of others, only intimidate us, fall into a childish or sacrificial position. As if we are not adults and cannot help ourselves in any way.
Of course, there is nothing good in illness, especially in a serious and dangerous one. But nevertheless, this makes our view one-sided. We do not notice the transformation and changes that are inherent even in a fatal disease, but were not unpacked, recognized and used by humans in their lives.
For an individual, a disease can become a test that he will pass or never understand why and why all this. And then there is a risk that everything was in vain. And again in the family, somewhere, someone will have a similar thing again, right down to the symptoms and the time of the disease. And the repetitions will continue until someone has the courage and stops running and turning away from the disease, fighting it, fighting. And “stop” (without stopping treatment and medical procedures) and start a dialogue: why, for what and why, and most importantly, what is the message that needs to be understood?
For the tribal system, a serious illness is either a meeting with the fact that for several generations already affects the fate of descendants or a deep multi-stage transformation that will bring the system to a new quality or to a new level of life.
The decision is made by a person.
Does he want to get stuck in the position of a victim, in suffering, embittered by the whole world to run in search of miraculous healing, allowing himself to be deceived and used by various fraudsters profiting from his suffering. Or he is ready to go for a solution, realizing that the revealed truth is bitter, but healing, that it is important to reach the end and get all the answers so that nothing is in vain.
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