Why Do We Fall In Love With The Wrong Men?

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Why Do We Fall In Love With The Wrong Men?
Why Do We Fall In Love With The Wrong Men?
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When a psychologist asks them why they married a notorious alcoholic, womanizer, parasite, rude, bandit, loser (etc.), they say:

  • - Because she fell in love!
  • - Because for a long time there was no sex with anyone, and it was very good with him!
  • “Because I’m tired of being alone, there’s no one better anyway, but the years go by!
  • - Because he had money!
  • - Because I thought that later everything would be different!
  • - Because she was already pregnant!
  • - Because there was nowhere to live, and he had an apartment / hostel (or his parents let him in).

Love is a special period in a person's life when special programs in his brain provide optimal conditions for communication with that random person who is a potential sexual partner, for sexual intercourse with him, for the birth and joint upbringing of children. She pushes people completely random for each other into one bed, muffling the minds of the very smart for this, making the uneducated, passive and frankly lazy more cunning, enterprising and energetic. To accomplish this task, love sweeps away any obstacle. Love is a program to remove those obstacles that prevent you from finding a mate for reproduction. Love is a forced compromise between two human egoisms, carried out for the sake of procreation. But hence the problem: Love is not responsible for what will happen next. It connects partners, and they then decide what to do with it. family psychologist Andrey Zberovsky

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