What Are You Telling The World? How To Find And Change The Breast Plate?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Yes, what is actually written on your chest? On the forehead? All over your body? Mimicry, pantomime? What are you broadcasting?

And we all really and without fail broadcast ourselves. Your thoughts, feelings - into the world. Together with them, we broadcast our fears, concerns, worries, expectations

Here is a simple example: you do not need to be a psychologist, physiognomist to determine the character of a person who entered the audience where you are sitting.

A stranger, but we instantly find out everything about him. Another thing is whether we are aware of this recognition? Do we take into account what we scanned? Does what we "considered" from a person are raised to the level of consciousness?

No, more often than not, nothing of this kind rises, and information rushes by. And in vain, by the way. By being aware of what we are "reading" from others, we can accept limitations and lower expectations from them.

By the way, in everyday, folk wisdom, there is information about intuition: "the first impression is the most correct."

This very intuition "lives" in those parts and structures of the brain that were developed and used by man in the pre-evolutionary period. Simply put, intuition is a legacy of the instinctive nature of animals. This is a socialized instinct. An instinct that can be understood, interpreted. To realize and use it intentionally, for your own good.

So, going back to the person who entered the audience …

By the way, - to read in a few moments exactly the message of a person and

- hang your own projections on another

the essence is different.

"Counting" is very simple. By posture, by the way the person entered, as he speaks. Exactly - HOW he does, not WHAT he says. For, I repeat, intuition, reading bodily signals is ancient. Natural.

And interpretation, rationality is different, it is a product of civilization, consciousness.

The mechanism of "guessing the other" can help you, but it can also hinder you. You instantly understood that a person is shy or fearful, passive, with a low level of energy. And your brain throws up socially approved motives: accept people as they are … but the person is good … or maybe he just didn't get enough sleep today … but he is so brave … strong and active …

Yeah. Here is the trap. Further, under the influence of your own rational explanations, you hang a bunch of your own expectations on a person, ignoring the correct prompts of your brain. You give the person a chance he didn't ask for.

And you? You yourself? You are broadcasting too. Your bent back (even if you already live in a gym), a glance from under your brows (even if you practice eternal positiff from morning to night), other fragments of your muscle shell.

I have deliberately intensified this strangely scary image of a stooped, frowning, with pursed lips, quiet-speaking and bad-smelling person))

For completeness and clarity.

So let's get back to you personally. For the umpteenth time. You are broadcasting. You are read. What they write is what they read.

And if we are talking about the topic of the relationship between a man and a woman, and even more specifically: about a woman's desire to meet a man, to create a couple, what this woman broadcasts to the world, what is written on her, is all the more important and requires understanding.

Suppose a woman is ready for a relationship, she is open to contacts, she is going to meet a man. In everything suitable for her. Woman - wants to get married.

And she, this woman, goes out into the world …

Or just waiting, on the stove, because the saying says: "He will find happiness on the stove too." However, I strongly recommend helping fate and getting off the stove. For to find something it can and will. It just might be too late. Maybe by that time there will be no need for any happiness at all …

The woman is already helping fate: she has already gone through all the previous stages:

- already admitted her loneliness, which no longer scares

- has already made up her mind and told everyone that she wants to get married instead of talking about how wonderful it is to be "self-sufficient" and she deliberately does not go into marriage …

- has already made up her mind and registered at the SZ and even has already begun to meet with applicants.

A woman went out into the world and said: I'm going to get married, I'm waiting for a meeting, I'm looking for him, I'm ready. She even dresses up beautifully, dresses up appropriately and goes to places where potential suitors / future husbands gather. But. No matter how much she dyes and no matter how much she dresses up, everything is wrong and wrong.

Why? Why is there no one at all in the nearby space, or all are not the same and even strongly not the same. She's ready. She's set up. She is sure that she understood herself, worked something in herself, read a ton of women's books, remembered childhood traumas.

Well … not completely, so I remembered. Or - not only did I understand.

Consciously, the woman says: ready. I want to meet him. And unconsciously, he says anything.

You know that there are some unconscious motives, feelings that are repressed or denied. The experiences that cause pain are for this helpfully sent by the psyche into the cosmos of the inner world, to the unattainable galaxies. And those fears, the pain that is in the experience, in the memory - is transmitted outside. It is projected, shines with a mean light from within, illuminates the eyes, face, body.

And the woman is actually not broadcasting openness, readiness, or desire. And again that same nasty fear. That very pain, alertness …

And it turns out what it turns out …

What I wrote is what I read.

There may be a distrust of the world inside, which was formed in the early pre-experience period of life. Maybe a real experience of betrayal, which knocked down, deprived of energy and strength.

The fear of intimacy is the most common and most serious. Severe fear. Fear to trust, fear of falling into a circle of betrayal, fear of rejection.

This inner nature does not disappear anywhere unless deep inner work is done. And work, of course, is more effective with a guide. With someone who knows "what" and knows how "how" - to help you get into the deep layers of the psyche, where it is almost impossible to get there on your own, because the psyche protects us from ourselves.

Find what is written on you!

Really: look in yourself, in the reactions of others. In your reactions to others - the very phrase that reflects your message to the world.

The signs can be different, the most common: all men are goats (in versions: the same … cheat … drink … are aggressive …), I am a victim … I am worthy of unworthy of me … there are no normal men (read: I do not believe that such as I am, I can count on happiness) … do not come! … I can do anything, I am independent … I am looking for a father for my children …. I am urgently looking for a solver of my problems …

Look for yours. It is important. This is extremely important! You will know what you are actually demonstrating by yourself, you will stop making mistakes and expecting the wrong thing and not there.

For if “all the goats” is written on you, then the goats will definitely come to the call. And you - confirm your own picture of the world, which, by the way, will set you back for a long time.

If you have a bunch of problems and you come up with a solution to them with the help of a man, well … that might be okay. However, you can be wrong.

Yes, a man in a pair, if he is responsible, mature and, in general, a "real man", then, of course, he helps a woman, becomes a back, a wall, support and protection. The confusion is that you are too early ready to hang on to him your problems and / or the role of a father to your children.

A man has his own mechanisms. Biological, psychological. And with what such joy should he become a father of children or a solver of the problems of a completely unfamiliar woman? Why is it to him? He also wants happiness.

He will, perhaps. Only later, when you become his woman. And now you are an outsider aunt with problems.

And it is written on you in CUTTING LETTERS, this is not a sign already, but a banner.

Therefore, the normal ones run to the sides. And the abnormal ones, with cockroaches ready to pair up your cockroaches - please, they are approaching.

And in the end - barter, a pair of victim-tyrant.

He: I care for you, you give me obedience, the ability to humiliate you, I need it …

She: okay, agreed, all the same, all the goats, even if this one is, for more, I will not pull … well, further according to your scenario.

Look for your sign. It is important

1.

I suggest you find this tablet. Considering what I said above, it turns out that your true message to the world is different from what you demonstrate. The woman put on makeup, dressed up in a good mood and went to meet happiness. She thinks so. And at this time on her chest there is a sign: "I am a victim … spit at me … you are a goat, and you are a goat … get married urgently" …

If you decide that you are cute, smart and want to meet a couple, but it says on you: "I can be offended, I am patient, I assure you", this is exactly what is read from you.

2.

We found our true message, formulated it, learned - a lot already. Now write this down on paper, cut it out in the shape of a plaque and place it under your clothes. I do not suggest pinning your inscription with pins to the dress, although you can try)), I suggest hiding it under your clothes, but really have it.

Come on live this message of yours. Chat with people along with this broadcast of yourself, your fears and expectations. Feel the reaction to you. But now these reactions can be understood by you, they are nothing more than a reaction to what you tell the world about yourself..

Walk around for three days. Go to work, go for a walk, when you correspond and / if you are getting to know each other. Remember what you are actually broadcasting. Fine? Like? No? Realize, be sad. Cry. Be sad that everything is so.

3.

Take off this medal "I can do everything by myself", or whatever is on you … Find what you would like to say about yourself. Phrase. Understanding, idea. Find the plate that is perfect for you. What you want people, men to read on you, to know about you.

Exactly so: find not what you want to write, because you will be mistaken.

Find what you want to be read on!

Now do the same as with the first plate, put it under your clothes and go with it. Your body. Your messages to the world are changing.

I will not prompt. Search. You may need to rewrite your plate several times. This is work. Your job is for your happiness.

And yes. This method can be used not only in the process of a global desire to change personal life.

Works in the process of looking for a job. At interviews.

After all, the search for a dream job and a dream man is almost identical. A resume for a dating site or a job search site is your message to the world. This is what you want to be thought and known about you. You will come to the interview and / or date in your true nameplate, hung directly on your chest.

Dealing with old and new people. Works in all spheres of life where contact with the Other is expected.

Remember, at the beginning of the article, a person who enters the audience and about whom we know a lot in a few seconds …

I wish you good luck and all the best!