2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
In the store, I accidentally witnessed a conversation between a couple: she is a pretty woman, dressed not expensively, but tastefully, he is short, pot-bellied, with a noticeable receding hairline. They look 30-35 years old. She speaks more quietly, he speaks louder and with derision. The meaning of the conversation is that he accuses her of insufficient grooming, setting as an example some acquaintance of his who looks younger and dresses better. The woman justifies herself and rightly notes that she does not have enough money to take care of herself at the same level, and invites the man to give her money for all this. The reaction of her husband was sharply negative, he began to shout that she had become insolent “not only do you don’t give anything for an apartment and food from“children's”money (in Ukraine,“children's”money is 860 UAH per month), but also to pull you thought of money from me! " The woman is clearly embarrassed and, trying to close the topic, offers to go to the movies. To which the “macho” responds with disgust: “With you? No, you're scary! " They paid and left the store.
I understand that since a woman tolerates such an appeal to herself, then she has some secondary benefits from this, I will return to this topic someday, but, to my great regret, such a man's position is not uncommon! This is sad! Today I want to talk to you, dear men, on a very important topic of your relationship to your loved ones!
Take pictures of your woman before or at the very beginning of your relationship, and a recent photograph, and honestly answer the question to yourself, “When did my beloved look better? More well-groomed? How did I influence this?"
I congratulate those of you who can point out that your wife looks better now, especially if you not only motivated to improve, but also paid for them. And I have a question for those of you who realized that a woman looked better before: what is your contribution to this?
Don't talk now about age, about the fact that she is not getting any younger, just look at the quality of her clothes, at her grooming: do you provide her with the opportunity to visit a beauty salon?
Updating your wardrobe? Relax? Or do you demand and freeze, looking in the trail of well-groomed women?
WHAT IS YOUR CONTRIBUTION TO YOUR LOVE'S EXTERNAL LOOK?
Now look your woman in the eyes: are they glowing with happiness, or have fatigue and sadness settled in them? No, do not dismiss that you have nothing to do with it, but think: does she receive your attention and care? What have you done to make her happy with you? Does she feel loved? How safe is she with you?
Please do not dismiss these questions, but think about them. When partners deliberately make each other happy, the degree of happiness in the couple increases, the union becomes resistant to any adversity! Try it! I believe you will succeed!
"It's worthless for those men who choke on saliva, looking at someone else's woman. You put on yours, put on your shoes and admire."
Sergey Bezrukov
Happiness to you!
With love, Natalia Lisyanskaya.
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