15 Terrible Mistakes You Wife Make

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Psychologist Andrey Zberovsky will tell

Fifteen wrong actions of wives, provoking husbands to cheat and leave the family:

1. The husband directly caught his wife in treason, or her behavior gave him too many reasons to be jealous (including chatting on the Internet and regular text messages).

2. Wife or was unable to satisfy her husband in the intimate sphere, or lost interest in this area, avoiding the caresses of her husband.

3. The wife openly neglected her appearance, Has ceased to like her husband as a woman.

4. The wife does not accept her husband's child from a previous marriage (or relationship), which irritates him.

5. The wife cannot regulate the behavior of her own child from a past marriage (or relationship) because of which a frankly hostile relationship is established between him and her husband.

6. The wife, directly or indirectly, refuses the husband to have a child. And it doesn't matter: first, second or third. The main thing is that a man consciously wants to turn him on, but his wife for some reason (fear of ruining the figure, losing a quiet life, little money in the family, the wife's age, etc.) does not.

7. Wife turned out to be a bad housewife, the soup is cooked for the whole week, the windowsills are dusty, the curtains have not been erased for years, the husband goes to work without sandwiches and with the buttons torn off. (Thus, giving a signal to the women around him that he can be taken away. The logic here is simple: After all, if he cannot train his wife and does not leave her, then he is weak. assign yourself.)

8. The wife does not have common goals in life with her husband, not interested in his work, completely occupied with her own affairs. For example, career, business, beauty, girlfriends, etc. Thus, creating a vacuum in communication, making any girl attractive to her husband, with whom there is something to talk about.

9. The wife has no common interests in life with her husband: she does not need any hobbies, hobbies, active leisure (etc.). Hence, the wife does not accept the company of her husband's friends, she is their enemy. If the husband turns out to be an active person and not a homebody, and his wife is not around, then it is not surprising that girls who share his passion for some kind of activity immediately become very close to him.

10. When a family lives with the wife's parents (or with the husband's parents, but at the initiative of the wife), the spouse stubbornly does not notice that the husband is extremely uncomfortable, does not take any action to change this situation. For example, buy an apartment with a mortgage, rent, etc.

11. The wife is at war with her husband's parents, does not communicate with them, opposes communicating with them both husband and grandchildren.

12. Wife has become, if not a "crazy mommy", then, in any case, is very close to this state. Moreover, it is not at all bad that all her thoughts are connected only with the child (this is just the norm), but that these correct thoughts take on the character of wrong actions in relation to her husband. The main problem is that the wife pays little attention to her husband.

13. The wife is too dependent on the opinion of her parents, who intrusively climb into her family. Or he harshly opposes the parents of her husband, on whom, in turn, he himself is in psychological and / or financial dependence.

14. The wife herself is problematic in her psyche:hysterical, alcoholic, drug addict, schizophrenic, depressed, suicidal, complete loneliness or, on the contrary, unbridled fun and alcohol.

15. The wife is a cold and calculating bitchwho has no warm feelings for her husband. He only systematically squeezes out of him all the money that can be squeezed out, mercilessly exploits him in everyday life and at work.

However, there is a "but". It is relatively easy to discover mistakes in family behavior when the husband is still at home and does not think about running away. If you have just such a situation now, you are very lucky. After all, you will be able to eliminate in advance the basic prerequisites for betrayal of your husband or his flight from the family. However, when your husband already has a mistress, or if he left you with an application for divorce, you have to act in much more difficult conditions. When not only the husband's resentment acts against you, but also his passion for the desired passion, the calculating mind of his mistress and her environment. In this case, it is important not only to know the mistakes you have made and how to correct them, but also what processes are taking place in the minds of your husband, poisoned by the poison of hatred or love. Moreover, as my surveys of husbands cheating and leaving families show, some of the above-described mistakes of wives form bizarre combinations in the heads of men.

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Yours faithfully, A. V. Zberovsky!