About The Essence Of Femininity Or 4 Simple Rules To Live Like A Woman

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

In our time, the custom of being a Woman returns again.

After so many decades of striving for equality with men, women began to notice the disharmony of such a choice, and many women again wanted to be Women. More and more information about women and femininity appears on the Internet and in fashion magazines. Nevertheless, it can be difficult to discover femininity in oneself, because for this it is necessary to change the habitual stereotypes of thinking that are passed on to us by our parents and continue to be approved in society.

This is because several generations have been brought up without having taught the wisdom and the feminine essence, and it is sometimes not easy to restore this knowledge at once. And yet, feminine nature lives in each of us. Each girl carries in herself the rudiments of the wisdom of femininity and cannot be a man, no matter how she strives for this for one reason or another. When upbringing, a way of thinking, our goals become masculine, when we prove to everyone that we can be more capable, better than men, then we, women, are faced with our essence. And this essence inside each of us remains “not happy” if we follow the male path of action and achievement. We find ourselves in opposition with our feelings, emotions, experiences and, unfortunately, following masculine nature, we do not achieve happiness. This situation makes even "successful" women start looking for their own path and understanding themselves.

Femininity does not mean that a woman in our world should not achieve success, but there is a feminine path, a way that leads both to self-realization and to unification with her natural wisdom.

In order to correctly understand what we mean by the words "male way" and "female way", let's look at an example.

For example: There is a simple business: a grocery shopping trip. The masculine way is about purpose, action and achievement. Those. for a man, the main thing is to understand what needs to be bought (list), and when where to go for it. The man is satisfied at the moment of the final result - products at home - goal achieved.

The feminine way and history in this fact is completely different. For a woman, the main thing is to go to the store, in which it will be more pleasant for her to buy everything she needs, and maybe at the same time and see something else, or on the way she will manage to do some other important thing. Those. the process itself is important for a woman, getting pleasure along the way and final result … In the end, the woman is satisfied that everything is done and how she achieved it.

This feature of the feminine and masculine is inherent in the primordial nature, and is reflected at all levels: in the structure of the physical and energy bodies, in how feelings are experienced, in the ways of thinking and acting. And if a woman chooses for herself a masculine way to manifest herself - focus on results, clarity, concentration, action, and she even manages to achieve what she has planned, then she experiences disharmony at all levels.

And here it is important to understand that it is not necessary to give up the goal itself, but from achieving it in a masculine way. It's the way that matters. Not the end result.

So what is femininity?

This is the ability of any woman to learn to trust her nature and to prioritize not so much the goal itself, but way to achieve it and process. To choose the main criterion of your activity is not the timing and the final result, but enjoy the processenjoying the end result that is bound to happen.

At this point, objections often arise. After all, a lot of women work as lawyers, accountants, managers, sales representatives, administrators, office workers, i.e. on serious work where there are plans, deadlines, goals, the need to achieve results. And, since it is efficiency that brings profit (and this is a matter of the survival of the entire enterprise or company), then only the result is appreciated.

As a result, almost any person finds himself in a situation where he needs and wants:

1) live well,

2) which means having enough money,

3) which means it is important to give the company and the employer what he wants - the result, and …

4) then there will be money to live at the level at which you want

In this way of thinking for a man, there is an opportunity to feel your need, usefulness and even a partial realization of yourself. You strain, you get results and you get energy. Those. for a man in this way of life is much less harm than for a woman, since he realizes some of his natural tendencies. I will make a reservation that for a man this way of thinking, which is described above, is not the most harmonious, but for a woman it is critical and harmful!

In this way of thinking, the main substitute is the following:

you need money to live, i.e. life = money

In this place, the value of one's own life is replaced by the desire to provide for it, and, accordingly, the value of the company's survival. In pursuit of money from the emerging strong existential anxiety (fear of death, fear of hunger and poverty, the likelihood of raising children alone, and indeed the idea that everything needs to be done by herself), a woman loses the opportunity to rest, relax, fill, and, even opportunity to love … A woman herself often does not notice how she is gradually losing life itself. Those. such a way of life out of anxiety and a desire to provide for oneself, children, out of necessity, out of loneliness, violates the deep foundations of the balance of the work of the female energy and its filling. And this often leads to the fact that by the age of 40 - 45, a woman acquires chronic, poorly curable or serious diseases.

In order to get out of this vicious circle, it is important to place values in their places:

1. Own life
2. Trust yourself, your desires. Learning to feel and understand oneself - this gives knowledge at what moment, what and how best to do.
3. Rest, relaxation - this gives a balance of fullness, well-being, the ability to love yourself and the world around you.

All this creates conditions and gives inner knowledge for the realization as a woman. Women are very effective if they are full. Then they have it turns out create, work, be effective, efficient, etc. They can do a lot of work in a shorter time frame, and the result will be high quality and soulful. An open woman has very good intuition and therefore she can almost always find a way to achieve a goal with less stress. Those. the effectiveness of women can be much higher than that of men due to natural intuition. But a woman is extremely important to be filled and be in placeso that the energy can naturally be realized.

It turns out that when a woman stops, returns to herself, calms and pacifies her anxiety and fear of “not surviving”, is filled, then, as a super prize, she can understand what to do and how to live more harmoniously with herself

And so the main criteria for the female way or way are:

1. Feel what you want to do

2. Think of how this can be applied in society so that money is obtained for it

3. Make your pleasure at work an important criterion,

4. Consider your vacation as an important and necessary source of joy and success

As a result, the efficiency and satisfaction of all parties will be higher.

With this approach, a woman has time to do what she loves, dancing, yoga, baking pies, or whatever else. And it turns out that by doing what she loves, she can become professional in this, and from this also get income. But that's another story.

This article is about the fact that life itself is valuable and important, and not the money that provides it. And so it is extremely important to calm down and start trusting yourself and the space. This will be the feminine way in its essence.

Having made my own journey towards femininity, it was also quite difficult for me to give up focusing on efficiency, timing and effectiveness. But this is precisely what prevents a woman from enjoying the end result of the goal achieved.

The nature of female energy is such that it is replenished from relaxation and a feeling of pleasure, and the nature of male energy is the ability to recover from effective actions and the final result, even if it was achieved through hard work. Given these characteristics, deeply understanding and knowing what is happening, a woman needs to stop betraying her nature.

Wanting and understanding her tasks, path, implementation, goals, it is important for a woman to concentrate on how she will embody it, and how much pleasure will be get in the process … Every day of pursuing your goal is simply obliged to bring pleasure to a woman. And then, receiving the final result, the woman remains very pleased with herself. She has experiences of lightness and joy of being.

But, if she puts her goal at the head of everything, and focuses on achieving it, then, as you already know, she is often forced to make unbalanced excessive efforts, often losing her health, emotional calmness, and not getting inflammation of the expended energy in the result.

And so, for us women it is important: to change not the desire itself, not to give up the goal of having something, and to stop focusing on the goal and the idea that we have to get it in hard work, necessarily on our own. Stop proving your strength, intelligence and abilities to the whole world through achieving a result.

It is important to shift the emphasis on the search for a harmonious and, if possible, easy way for yourself, to do what you want and like. And the goal will definitely happen

Understanding the very nature and essence of the concept of femininity, that this is a different way to live, directing your attention to:

• relaxation,
• balance of work and rest,
• the importance of your feelings and sensations,
• timeliness of actions,
• getting pleasure from the process itself,

a woman falls into the center of her happy and easy being.

Such a woman ceases to complain about the "hard female lot", because everything she does is just what she herself wants. She begins to constantly arrive in a state of fullness and joy, which means, more and more falling into a sense of calmness and pacification, harmony and love - into the experience of her feminine nature.