2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
13 female proven ways to be unhappy and not enjoy life and relationships
1. Do not ask anyone for help, do everything yourself. Even if it is very difficult, to strain and pull with the last bit of strength and at the same time do not ask anyone for anything, do not seek support. Refuse what others, especially men, suggest, out of fear of being obligated or out of shame for their own failure.
2. Criticize and condemn yourself for shortcomings and mistakes. Especially in difficult situations in which it would be good to support and comfort yourself, and not to punish. Be focused on what doesn't work, what you don't like, rather than what makes you happy.
3. To endure, not to talk about your feelings, about what is not suitable and disliked, or about what you want, but it seems that you cannot or did not deserve it. Try to deserve and earn benefits, and until that moment deny yourself desires and not show feelings.
4. To postpone what pleases and gives pleasure until later, until better times, until some mythical bright future
5.. To spare money on yourself, but it is easy to spend on what is necessary or right. Save them for a rainy day or think about the needs of others, not allowing yourself to satisfy your even small fantasies.
6. In a bad mood, pretend that everything is good, that you are happy, pretend to be strong, courageous, positive and invincible
7. Consider yourself obligated to work out the attention and care of a man
8. Agreeing to requests, projects, suggestions, care or help for others, even if it is not interesting, leads to a waste of energy and time. To be sacrificial and resignedly agree to sit with other people's children, walk someone else's dog, edit someone's article, while their own affairs and projects are postponed until later. Putting the interests of others ahead of your own. Be helpful and comfortable.
9. Consider yourself unworthy of gifts, attention, admiration and money
10. Suffer remorse because you are not engaged in weight loss, breast enlargement and priests. Feel constant dissatisfaction with your appearance.
11. Compare your life, your man, children, appearance and wealth with others and focus on what is lacking. Strive with all my might to new horizons without noticing the good that is nearby.
12. Constantly remember about pain in relationships with men and instead of living through it and opening your heart to new love, convince yourself that it is better to be alone or just use men for your own purposes
13. Forbid yourself to do what you love, creativity, what inspires and gives strength and desire to live. Instead, it is necessary to do only what is necessary, due to age and status, which is correct, useful and economically profitable. No pampering, freedom, play, or magic.
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