8 Steps Towards Your Dream. Algorithm

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

I thought for a long time whether it was worth writing about myself. But later I decided to write, as it is more honest. The algorithm is not a proven scientific work by someone. It is based on my empirical experience, and of course on my personal research of this issue from theory and the experience of other people.

Therefore, I still recommend that you listen to yourself. Perhaps my experience will not suit you and the essence of your path in general or milestones at this stage of life is a completely different idea of happiness, satisfaction with fate, a dream and the possibilities to create your reality. Perhaps your idea of a dream is the absence of the need to dream, place orders of the macro and microcosm, and assert your intentions. And it is important for you to be in silence … and emptiness … trusting completely in your mind or trusting completely in the higher mind (to guide you).

And I, too, have once been in such rounds of development. It was once important and useful for me. But if you try to take these steps, and you succeed, then I will be sincerely happy for you, if not happy for you and for the fact that something useful was born from the time of my creation of life.

It's not just about how to make a single dream come true. This is most likely an algorithm for making dreams come true, which can be applied over and over again to a state of happiness and satisfaction with your life.

In this article, the concepts of “happiness and satisfaction with one's life” mean such an aspect as: a person has a desire, strength and ability to dream. And there are also time-tested ways to make these dreams a reality. And as a result, there is an understanding: a path that is valuable has been covered, and a dream embodied in reality is, to some extent, a great act of creation and co-creation with the Universe, a self-completed and integral stage.

Is this easy to achieve? Make your dreams come true? Yes, it's surprisingly simple. But why, then, each of us cannot say with a great deal of confidence that he is happy, satisfied with his life and that he embodies one dream after another?

Why can someone say that he is the Master, Wizard and Engineer of his life, and for someone such well-known methods of visualization or positive thinking do not work? I perfectly understand the bewilderment and distrust of many people who have despaired to believe their dreams and dream. After all, I myself was more than once confused by certain turns on the way to my dreams.

And I, just the person who could call myself the Master of dreams from the crib. Like any child, I dreamed as a child. My acquaintance with the first acts of creation of my own life began with gifts from Father Frost and the Wizard Akchomam (read the other way around - "mommy"). They gave gifts for the new year and birthday, embodying bears and skates for me.

But I wanted the Magic Wand! And my mother advised me not to take away from Akchomam his only magic wand, with which he gives us gifts. Apparently then I experienced the first disappointment in my powers of managing reality. And I had to go through many destinations for this day: pain, and disappointment, and happiness, and inspiration, and admiration for the Magnificent Creation of Life and our ability to create.

And so, today, I have this Magic Wand … I analyzed a bunch of my embodied wishes. And I found that such success could not come chaotically over and over again. Just as the complex structure of DNA could not have arisen from the first chemical soup on planet Earth, which has a solid scientific foundation today. The one that repeats itself many times has some kind of order and some kind of laws.

How is it, you ask, does a dream have any laws? Isn't this just our fantasy? Isn't that sometimes the complete nonsense of a madman? Goals are another matter. And then, it is not always possible to come to them. Yes, you are right, I will answer you. This is an important point. A dream, in my mind, differs from a goal in that it is, as it were, a more daring throwing of a goal, not limited by anything, and especially not limited by our cold reason. It is, as it were, the setting of a goal by the childish part of our soul, believing in good and miracles.

This is an important resource of our body that must be respected and given a place in our life. Let's remember that materialists are already nervously smoking after the discovery of invisible matter, dark energy and other amazing phenomena in the Universe. And it makes more sense to assert and study what exists, and not to deny what has not yet been discovered.

This means that if this resource works for many people and helps them to make their lives the way they want, then there is a reason to think about the fact that, perhaps, the management of a dream is invisible, but possible.

So, this my magic wand is my algorithm for achieving a dream. If you want to feel peace and happiness from the fact that you almost, and perhaps every day, live in Your Incarnate Dream (or even several), then here are your steps …

1. Consists of 4 stages: analysis, gratitude, search for dreams, balanced planning.

Measure three times with each other (Past-Present-Future) and summarize.

When I analyze, summarize, I understand that my life is filled with miracles, even those that I never dreamed of. And this is very inspiring for new dreams!

Once I read a perplexed article by a person who did not like this phrase: "God works miracles in my life." I understand him completely. If your neighbor told you that he saw a real dinosaur yesterday, you would not believe him. And even if you yourself saw this dinosaur, I think you would not believe yourself for a while.

But if, my dear reader, you looked at this dinosaur every day, it would become as commonplace for you as brushing your teeth. And then the doubts of others would already surprise you.

And so, when people make lists of miracles that have already happened in their lives (this is an exercise), when they allow magic to happen, then it begins not only to be, but to happen at least every day. It comes as often as we want it, it's magic. By magic, as you already understood, I mean the realization of our desires and more … the wildest desires …

When suddenly the people you need come, when they offer you what you need right now, for your dream project. When you are given gifts, love, help, support just like that, and when suddenly you find yourself in the place where you thought you could never be, only by the will of a higher power (an amazing event). And you feel: something mystical is in the air …

But wait, don't close your eyes to this, don't try to run away, and then don't remember.

People want, but are afraid of miracles. They are afraid of an unknown force that they cannot master with the mind. Although, if you think about it, we are everywhere surrounded by mysticism - we live in an unknown Universe, with more and more new things that are being revealed to us by the early science. Up to the point that in some places in the universe there are absolutely no laws of our material three-dimensional world!

The first thing to start with is to awaken your child who believes in miracles, but is disappointed somewhere along the way. We need to show him that there were and are many miracles in his life. Here's a simple exercise: make a list of the miracles in your life that have already been created by you in conjunction with the macrocosm. Make a list of all the dreams that have come true.

Gratitude … When you are surprised at the list (well, yes, of course, dear reader, I understand that it may not appear immediately, but only after 10 hours of thinking and recollecting (joke), and asking other people: “what kind of miracles do they have? This will remind you of your miracles-dreams come true).

So, you will be surprised that the Universe has taken care of you, helping you to become happy, I hope so. And it's time for gratitude. It kind of fixes the feeling inside your consciousness that you are a lucky one, not a loser! Again, an exercise (preferably daily) is to list everything for which you are grateful to the Creator. Hard? Then go to places where the disadvantaged collect the remnants of rotting food from garbage dumps, to hospitals, where they bring dying people or drug addicts who are not conscious, and other places that sobered me very well personally …

A very useful thing. This is how we begin to understand how many gifts we have to be fully happy and fulfilled, how many opportunities. We are alive … We breathe … Well, besides that, if we dig, oh, how many things … Read inspiring stories and watch films. This is so - you will be convinced.

Balance. Periodically, as much as it is important to you, but at least once a year (on New Year's Eve)), you sit down with a pen and a notebook and make a list of your dreams. Write them down as goals in life.

Probably everyone already knows the Circle of Balance of Needs. Draw a circle. You ask yourself: what do I need? What do I want in love, in family, in finances, in a career, in communication with friends, in spiritual development, in health, in creativity? You draw a circle divided into 8 parts. Label them as 8 areas of your life that are important to you, to your happiness and life satisfaction. And then you put down the percentage of satisfaction in these areas of life everywhere.

For example, in the field of personal health - how are you satisfied with everything? Or would you like to improve something in order to be absolutely happy from the awareness of your health in the "here and now"? How rested and cheerful are you? Absolutely nothing bothers you? How much do you feel like a potential long-liver? And are you doing something to improve your health? Then 100%. Or do you need to heal some organs? And you do not rest enough and are irritated excessively? Then, for example, 10%. And so with all spheres of life.

Then, paint over all areas. And then this spider of your life is visible. Or a lame, lame, as if from a military field, injured by an attack and half-dead. Or a cheerful, full-fledged, caressed by fate, like a summer sun, a spider, with uniform and whole legs, happily walking through the fields of your life and weaving a web like a dream catcher, luring luck and luck.

Now, the first step is important for you - to cover all areas of your life. You cannot be half happy. As soon as you set the right goals and start filling them with energy, and not forgetting your real estate on the far shelf of the closet, you will already feel many times happier than you do now. What does “right” mean, in this context, I will tell in the article, dear reader.

I suppose that you may not like the word "right - wrong", "should" - "not necessary." I myself did not like them when my mom and dad talked about them. But I really fell in love with them when they practically led me to the realization of complete happiness and harmony in the "here and now".

Having put down, even intuitively, the percentage of satisfaction, you begin to describe in more detail what you would like to have or do in these areas in order to arrive at an equal percentage in all areas of life. At least 50% in each section of the circle. Well, of course, it's better - 100%.

Balance between all areas of life is important when planning. Well, a person cannot be completely happy, for example, if he even has a takeoff in his career, but he will not begin to do anything after coming out of his loneliness. Balance will be important when the machine in your mind starts the engine and drives towards your dreams.

This balance, about which, by the way, coaches talk a lot, when setting goals, is no less important when living every day of your life. These goals of yours should be present in your life every day, even for a millimeter, even for 15 minutes, it is important to move in the direction of all these designated areas of your life.

Let's say you have 90% health, but you will not give up doing exercises, taking care of your personal growth or family, if you did it before? It is important to do something every day for all these areas of life. Should I focus on one less satisfying one? I have often come across such recommendations. For example, if a woman is divorced, she needs to focus on her career first and not set goals in one year - to get married and get a new job.

So, on my own and the examples of other people, I became convinced that it is important to direct energy into all areas of life. Daily. Drawing up a plan for a week, for a day, for a month, which includes goals for all areas. They may be small, comfortable for you, but their place is to be with you every day. I am irrational, but when I plan and distribute evenly, then I feel good. And there are many reasons for this.

You don't know how long you will live, and you may never know the happiness of family life while pursuing a career. Or you never organize an exhibition of your paintings, working as an accountant or teacher. Putting it aside for later, you cannot say that you know exactly how many beautiful, potentially abundant days in your destiny are still presented to you.

Another reason is to be happy in the here and now. What will bring satisfaction, a one-time act, when a dream comes true, and for a whole year or 10 years, go to it unsatisfied? Or every day, a little closer to it, touch it, not pushing it away for later, and rejoice every day?

And yet … it is so important that the more and more energy is invested in a dream, the more chances of its realization, the faster it will come to your door and knock. And also, interestingly, your brain will form a new conditioned reflex to move towards your dreams in 21 days.

Yes, there will be days of exceptions (I will write about this in step 3), when the focus will shift a little to this or that dream, when you will generally rest from everything, some days of life without a plan. Of course, sometimes we move towards goals and dreams in a stressful way, focusing more on one. But … This should not become the norm, but only a temporary exception.

The best solution is to try this item for yourself. Only experience will clearly show the truth, in contrast to our quirky, and "emotionally drunk", sometimes mind.

2. Trust the resource of the Higher Self (Higher Power, Macrocosm), apply to it daily and activate it.

The spiritual component and appeal to the Healthy Part of your Self is very important. Our dysfunctional part of the personality contains many false, harmful beliefs (It's bad to be rich). Sick scenarios of your kind (cunning grandparents who were afraid to be rich or loved and happy) can also lurk there, or rather their experience in the form of poisonous patterns of movement towards the goal. You want to buy a house, and these scenarios lead you to unsuccessful actions in this direction. You are acting to your own detriment. And there is a lot more that can hide in the back streets of the unconscious. What does not lead you, but leads you away from the dream.

Therefore, it is incredibly important to daily turn to the resource of the higher healthy self in the form of prayer, conversation, attitude, self-hypnosis, meditation, self-hypnosis and other methods. Invite this resource into your life, ask it to guide you and build on it. Your Main Higher Self is the one who knows: where you go better than all the psychologists in the world!

3. Act daily. Goals. Plans.

“God has no hands other than yours” - there is such a true metaphor. It is so wonderful that it is we who can receive the resource of the Higher Self, the superpowers of our brain, having received the resource of the Macrocosm - of our own free will to move towards the goal every day for at least 3 minutes. At least 1 minute. If you missed or forgot or failed … Just go back to the beginning. From one minute a day. And of course increasing the time. Write goals for the week, for one day. Plan for a day, a week, a month, a half a year, a year. Do the planned. Summarize the goals achieved. Write goals and summarize with a partner or support group. Make a list of absolutely any things in the movement towards a dream, such as: reading something, watching something, doing some small action, a big action. And look at this list daily. Make 1 point.

4. Dream and live as if it has already come true.

That is, to ask the question: How would a rich man live, think, act? (your dream for example). How could I know? You ask. From the collective unconscious that holds the keys to all locks and the answers to all questions. IN YOUR unconscious.

It is important to awaken the artistic child again, to get used to the role of the person who made your dream come true. As a futuro practitioner, I do this with wonderful people who are thinking about their plans. We enter the role of ourselves in the future, we replay this scene of the future and explore the feelings and sensations in the body. It becomes clear whether the goal is to your liking. The brain is activated, later finding ways to emotionally attractive and understandable at the level of the mind, body - the goal.

It is important to live this way, this is how your ideal person lives. Your thinking changes, and nothing else remains of your external reality, how to reflect your internal.

How does this person think? How does he sleep? How is it? What does he answer? What mood is he in? Is he happy, and if so, how does he react to everything around him?

Happy and unhappy people react to situations in completely different ways. But if it is difficult for you, and you are twisted from the thought that you need to act against your desire. Not in the face to give, but quietly leave, wishing the person well, then … it's time to move on to the next point. And strengthen the previous one. Recall the wonders of your life (instead of resentment against God. Not to supplant resentment, but to work it out, of course. In the next step.)

5. Healing of the inner world - resistance, obstacles, fears, change the scripts of the subconscious. Dealing with envy.

The worst part starts here. Meeting your inner shadow figures. Perhaps the universe has long had everything that you need, but you DO NOT SEE it! This is it - resistance to success and a bunch of your fears and beliefs from your parents, culture, TV and society. Your pain. Your disappointments. You have to work with this. And the universe is infinitely generous in helping you. These are coaches, psychologists, various self-help groups, support groups and other options for healing the inner world.

This is what prevents all seven billion people from becoming happy and rich and loved. Only a part of us, wonderful and great people in our potential, reach the end. To the cherished goal through your fears. The mirror of the soul, from which our inner child and grandparents who suffered a lot and much, and the shadow of a sick person, full of drama, culture, and all human pain from the collective unconscious, look at us.

But what else is there? Resource, resource and again resource of Super abilities, Super powers. A resource that gives birth to wizards and co-creators (together with the Macrocosm) of our own destiny in us. Who is writing our book of life? We ourselves. Who is the protagonist of our film of life? We ourselves. And our inner core of personality, which is connected with the Macrocosm.

About envy. She's also a brake. She tells us that we are failures. But we can easily make a helper out of her. I'll just give you a table as an example. What revolts you in other people, what you feel jealous of. Don't be afraid of her. We will meet with her. This is an intimate but honest process.

Write a list of those whom you envy (especially those who respond about your dream), what exactly you are envious of. And point 3 - write that you can do this already today or tomorrow, that is, in the near future, similar to what this person is doing? Is he a dancer? You sign up for dancing. Does he act in films? Start your video channel. Is he a successful businessman? Go to the tax office, find out what you need to start a business. Sign up for startup courses: "How to start your own business from scratch?"

I think you understand this mechanism. Next, you need to put your little plan into action. And you will get closer to your goals faster than you thought. And also find out what attracts you, what types of activities? What are your talents? What you secretly envy.

6. Working with limiting beliefs, informational asceticism. Self-support. Inspirational examples - every day.

I have already talked about how limiting beliefs and suggestions prevent dreams from coming to us. And now you have cleared your mind. But wherever you look, it was as if the video was put on "repeat". All around, on TV, on the Internet, in casual conversations, the transfusion of negative, limiting and poisonous beliefs from person to person continues. How bad it is to live. How hard it is to live. What are all bad. How rich are bad. How unrealistic it is to get married after 30, with children, how impossible it is to leave an unhappy relationship and create new happy ones. That someone else can become a famous writer, artist, artist, coach, architect, businessman, only a rich or a child of the rich, but not us …

My inner child shrinks at these phrases. He does not want to dream, and even more so to do, as it may seem to him, empty movements towards a dream. After all, everything will be useless! Disappointing!

But we will calm him down. And let's say that these are all fairy tales of unhappy and unlucky people who do not want to work on themselves and take responsibility. But our loving inner parent will take responsibility for caring for our vulnerable inner child. And now our task is to carry out austerity. Stop watching these programs, films, reading these books and articles, listening to these people.

We will support ourselves and our inner little creator. And instead of poisonous phrases, listen and read and watch a little bit only inspiring stories, books and films about great people who made their dreams and goals come true. Especially those whose dreams come true are similar to yours.

7. Circle of friends and environment. Asceticism of communication. Support circle.

You will probably have to part with some friends and family for a while (completely limit communication and contact). Those who are poisonous can very much prevent you from achieving your dream. Not on purpose, but because of its lack of fulfillment. Calmly and politely limit contact with them. Those who hit self-esteem, do not believe in you, do not believe in your dream, hinting, accusing, threatening, discouraging. Even unconsciously.

And instead of this circle of friends, you acquire a new one. By actively communicating and opening up to where the Macrocosm and your higher unconscious are leading you, you meet those who are ready to support you, as they are on the way or have already come.

These people can give you many useful links and ideas for your project. And, believe me, the universe is also abundant with such people. You just need to open up to them. Make a request to the higher self to search for such people. And learn to interact with them on a different level. Not as a loser, but as a successful, happy person realizing his dreams.

8. Be willing to turn in other directions from your dreams.

Trust what comes along the way. Trust that the best comes. Perhaps your dreams were not yours, and the universe was synchronized with your true dreams and needs. I already wrote about this. The universe is responding to our work being done. She brings in many opportunities and people.

Maybe you can't believe it now. And it seems like empty pretentious words. But this is only because in your experience few of these events occur. If you open up … (Yes, I understand, it's scary) … But if you start to open up slowly, trust, ask your Higher Self to help you, then such amazing things will accumulate in your experience.

And you will see how everything changes dramatically in your life. But sometimes it seems to us that everything went wrong, we were refused somewhere, our dream was not supported by other troubles. And this means that your wise, all-knowing who, the subconscious has chosen something better for you! He has a more accurate and more masterful sight …

The metaphor also reflects the essence of this step: "God has only three answers for me:" Yes, dear! "," Yes, dear, but later! "," No, dear, I have prepared something better for you."

We often see that the wise higher led us to another, more suitable dream, or saved us from more serious troubles. From what? We cannot always calculate this. It only remains to trust. He did not become a director of this company - he opened his own company a year later. She did not marry this man, met a month later another, who is a more suitable partner, and the former turned out to be a womanizer and gigolo. I didn't go on vacation, but I was sick, and while sitting at home, I began to paint. Six months later, she became a famous artist. These are such striking examples. There are also quieter ones. You can listen to such living stories of people yourself, having talked with people. And then you yourself will remember your own series of cases when they seemed to be saved, taken away and led to what you are now immensely happy about.

And yet, when the dream has been achieved (or a better one has been achieved), what is important to do next? Back to point number 1 …

To see what has been achieved or to see this best achieved, Give thanks

And dream again …

And then bring these dreams into Your circle of needs in a balanced way, ….. And later in His Real Book of Life.