2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
A woman should not turn to stone. You should not conserve your feelings, emotions, desires, experiences.
What leads to petrification?
- A vow to never cry. Tears are emotional cleansing. They cannot help grief, however, they relieve internal stress and negative comes out through them.
- Suppression of emotions. More often than not, we suppress them due to the fact that we were told "bad emotions should not be shown." However, we need to learn how to throw them out so that it does not harm others and sets us free. Drawing, dancing, hitting a pillow, tearing paper, singing, writing a diary - all these methods can be used when you feel negative emotions inside.
- Resentment and anger. It's hard to imagine life without it))) but you shouldn't carry them around. Write letters, represent the abuser in front of you, and speak to him virtually. Look for the reasons for your resentment, because of what life situations you became vulnerable, what values you hurt.
- The inability to say what you don't like. It settles in us like a bundle of energy. When it accumulates and there is no way to endure it, we often throw it out. You can avoid a volcanic eruption if you say in time what you don't like is not suitable. Learning to say no is also important.
- Lack of enjoyment. Woman is a process, not a goal. If she goes to the goal and does not enjoy the path, she does not enjoy it. It drains and takes away energy, liveliness. A regular meal can be made a delight. There are many things in the day that we do automatically, pay attention to them and have fun.
- Lack of laughter and joy. Laughing heartily, enjoying the smallest little thing will revitalize your whole body, and your eyes will radiate positive energy.
- Lack of love, tenderness, grace, fluidity, compassion, flexibility. I like the comparison of a woman to a river. The river flows and gently winds around the rapids and also gracefully wears away the stone. In the modern world, a woman is faced with many challenges where it is necessary to show rigidity, steadfastness, assertiveness. This often manifests itself in the work sphere, or as a result of upbringing, in which she was taught that she should be able to stand up for herself, earn her living, and become the pride of her parents. One way or another, there are reasons due to which a stable, unshakable personality is formed.
You can dance to add softness. Only the dance is the dance of strife. Recently I saw the performance of my nieces, after which I realized how much modern dances deprive women of femininity, while ordinary gymnastics adds smoothness, grace, grace. Choose dances that have a lot of plastic movements and it is advisable to dance in a skirt. Clothing is also important. Lightweight fabrics that are pleasant to the body are awe-inspiring. I really love dresses. When I started wearing them, I began to feel my body differently. However, trousers, combined with a beautiful blouse, are very graceful.
Silly mood. Remember the American films in which a woman and a man smear each other in cream or chocolate, splash water, throw pillows. Once at one training session, the coach turned on the music and said to play tag, the loser will have to clean up the audience. We ran like little children. We frolicked so much! The training was very difficult and 10 minutes of playing, silly mood, gave lightness and airiness to each participant
There are many situations in life that give us the opportunity to be petrified. Knowing this and applying at the end of each day that which is close to us from the above, each of us will always feel the inner feminine energy, grace and softness.
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