Maturity Women

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Women's identity is a profitable business, and with age it fully develops if there is such an aspiration. Not all girls are instilled with femininity from the cradle, and each, I think, has its heyday …

For myself, I can say that until I was twenty-nine I was not particularly noticeable for men, and from thirty-five I suddenly became very beautiful and desirable. And this is not a question of appearance: I have always loved to get dressed, and then, I no longer have that luxurious hair, like at twenty-five, and time certainly touched my face … But something must have changed inside. The less effort I put into being liked, the more attention and recognition I get. There is also a version that I began to recognize all this more, which is also true.

Women of all ages come to me to sort out their lives, and surprisingly, I have enough wisdom to help them in this. Despite a very modest list of facts from my biography, my experience turns out to be very multifaceted and unusual. Probably, the point is in the depth of living of those events about which outwardly there is not even much to tell. Somehow I smuggled maturity and wisdom into my life, until, apparently, nothing happened in my life. To divert the eyes (smile).

It is difficult for me to define what exactly is female maturity, as such, but I can note some changes in my perception and behavior, which I recognize as progress. I will describe the signs of female maturity in the third person, with the air of an "expert" - so much more fun!

Mature woman does not listen to anyone. More precisely, she hears, listens, but draws only her own conclusions. No ready-made solutions, authoritative opinions, or even prophecies can be crammed into it. She only listens to her heart.

Mature woman does not expect anything from a man. She believes in him! That is, she knows that if he is a man, then he himself will find a way to demonstrate this. Moreover, her own, authentic, and not at all the one that she and public opinion wants to see in her head.

Mature woman does not divide men into types and subtypes. Not according to the horoscope, nor according to the "experienced data" of other women. She also does not build classifications of novels with the likely development of events for each of them. She focuses on what she wants from this particular man at the moment and is always open to unexpected turns of fate.

Mature woman does not seek to please men, she does not think about it at all. She has already proved everything to everyone. She certainly looks after herself and loves to look beautiful. But she is not so focused on the external effect - her attention is directed to the center of her Being.

Mature woman does not pretend to be a daughter in a man's life and enters into competition only with his peers. This means that she is not looking for a sponsor and is ready to rely on her own resources. She, of course, is pleased when money is spent on it, but this can in no way be the goal, meaning or condition.

Mature woman does not put a man at the center of his life. Love can be a very great value for her, and even the main one, but not the central and not the only one.

Mature woman … I would like to continue indefinitely, but let each woman continue this list herself.