2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
In the process of becoming a person, after a severe mental trauma (parasuicide, autoaggression, alcoholism, drug addiction and many more maladaptive and addictive personality manifestations), he needs to adapt in a new way in society. Having previous experience and not having received what he expected, a person thus needs to accept and understand the world around him in a new way
For this, accordingly, adaptive resources of the psyche, material and moral values are needed.
Any stimulants must be excluded, through which a person is trying to cope with the state of psychological discomfort and feelings of maladjustment in society. To the above-mentioned psychosomatic diseases that interfere and spoil a person's life.
The tendency of the entire functional purposeful system in an individual is determined by the correspondence and non-correspondence of his goals and results.
Adaptive resources are manifested in their coherence.
In this system of functioning, we determine not the same options in the possible orientation of adaptations.
Suppose, with certain knowledge and skills to look at life philosophically, you can choose a model of hedonism, that is, in the final adaptation, a person achieves pleasure and avoids suffering, finds meaning and pleasure, and highlights all this with white moments of happiness.
The Epicurean model is best ruled out. Of course, you can be happy with porridge and water, in the basement or with people without a fixed abode, but it won't last for a long time. soon a person as a person will collapse. There will not be, not I, not over I, but only one It will remain, that is, an animal in which there is almost no human left. Except for arms, legs and head, with a set of reflexes and motor dysfunctions as a result of dipsomania - alcoholism.
It is also necessary to take into account the pragmatic side of adaptation, social domestic and professional. Get a job and solve the housing issue, at least for the first time. Success and achievement after adaptation in society, already another person, cannot be ruled out.
Judgments about a person only as a being that adapts to a limited extent are considered within the framework of the self-movement of activity. This analysis leads to the idea of non-adaptability as a possible positive phenomenon.
The whole system of purposefulness means the existence of a contradictory relationship between the goal and the outcome.
Intentions may not coincide with action, intentions with their embodiment, and motivation for actions and their results.
This contradiction is inevitable and difficult or not at all removable, but it contains the subtext and source of the dynamics of activity, its materialization and development. Failure to achieve the goal activates and raises all the resources in a person in positive progress in a given course.
Evolution developed in depression and stress, this is a kick-in-the-ass mechanism, only when a person is driven out, he begins to think and go forward. If the result is richer than the initial aspirations, then with the participation of psychomotor mechanisms it stimulates the development of activity.
Intelligence is acquired for human evolution and survival in any conditions.
All mental, philosophical categories and reasoning came much after the birth of Man and Woman, and man survived and became more and more social and surrounded himself with comfort and stimulants.
With no adaptability, the object of attraction becomes the very border between opposite outcomes of action, and even the very possibility of mutually exclusive outcomes of activity.
Such an attraction is part of the forms of all motives of behavior.
In the field of knowledge, a person is attracted by the line between knowledge and non-knowledge, familiar and unfamiliar, and this is a stimulus and an engine.
If a person is inclined to creativity, then the line between the possible and the impossible, art, poetry, prose. All this opens up new worlds inside a person, which seemed impossible, becomes possible. There are enough examples in history to understand this and be objective.
In the area of risk, this line between well-being and danger to existence, unconscious fears displace at risk all these decorations of fears invented by the person himself. Risk played an important role in the evolution of c.
In games where the line between the imaginary and the real is simply transparent, and this transparency pushes a person into all these manias and temptations.
Trust between people also looks like the border of openness to people and alienation from them, which can serve as a social and mental maladjustment of a person who experiences his micro and macro processes in his soul. A person can withdraw into himself and dissolve in internal disharmony, which later can lead to suicidal thoughts. The first step is socially mental complexity of adaptation in society.
Non-adaptability can also serve as a form of maladaptiveness, in cases of a protracted and unsuccessful attempt to realize a goal, or when there are two or more equivalent goals.
This, in turn, indicates the immaturity of the personality or the stage of infantility, psychoneurotic deviations, some kind of disharmony in the field of decision-making, or it may be the result of an extreme, force majeure situation.
Therefore, adaptation and its resources adapt to the conditions of the environment, that is, a person must be adapted to the requirements existing in society, stereotypes, assessment criteria through the adoption of the norms and values of this society.
And remember, just by changing your consciousness - together we are changing the world!
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