2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
No, we are not talking about the Soviet Union, in which, as you know, there was no sex. In the life of each of us from time to time comes such a "Soviet" period. For various reasons: at the moment there is no partner, the relationship does not work out, a break occurred and communication stopped. It so happens that this part of life is not filled quite consciously.
Someone experiences such a situation painfully, someone philosophically. In any case, some discomfort from the inability to realize oneself in the intimate sphere is certainly present. How to improve your personal life? Only by solving in a complex the problem of relations with others, consciously approaching the choice of a potential partner.
After all, casual relationships give an even more acute feeling of loneliness. Sex with an unloved person does not bring the desired emotions and satisfaction. And besides, side effects are possible, such as unwanted pregnancy, various infections. There is a high probability of getting a whole bunch of diseases from promiscuous sex.
On the other hand, it is not always possible to artificially restrain oneself, especially at a young age. Then problems of a purely psychological plan begin: dislike, resentment against a partner, failed feelings. As a result of the approach to communication with a person, as to interaction with the object of satisfaction of sexual requests, depression can develop.
Another aspect of forced loneliness is dissatisfaction with one's own appearance. Maybe this is your purely individual view, but such a non-constructive position can significantly spoil your life.
Trust me, your friend is often deeply indifferent to whether you have cellulite or not. If your communication is based on mutual trust, interest, if you are a bright self-sufficient person, you want to communicate with you. And, as a consequence of this - to have sex.
Therefore, during the period of voluntary or forced abstinence from intimate life, it makes sense to think about self-realization. Perhaps - to work on your appearance, figure. This will give a chance to meet a truly loved and desired person, to establish an intimate sphere of your life.
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