How And How Men And Women Are Dissatisfied

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Men, for the most part, are very little inclined to self-reflection, for them the internal state is usually defined by a simple word - normal. But this does not mean at all that men do not pay attention to it, they, comparing it and the external factors of the world, often come to the conclusion that everything is more or less all right with them. Men are more inclined to turn their attention outward than inward. This is one of the reasons that more often they can be dissatisfied with the state, politics, the situation around their own affairs.

With a woman, the story is completely different. Since nature has created women emotional and sensual, it is necessary for a woman to feel her child better, then they (women) are more predisposed to analyze their inner state. And for women, the issue of comfort in this area will always be one of the main ones. If a woman begins to feel that she is dissatisfied with herself, and that she somehow becomes wrong, then first of all, in most cases, she will begin to look for the reason in herself. This explains the fact that women are more likely to turn to psychologists, or prefer to discuss such issues with their friends.

If we talk about relationships, then there is one very interesting point about how a man can express his dissatisfaction without noticing it himself. Seemingly affectionate words: zainka, kitty, bird, but in all these words there is a diminutive suffix. Sometimes, to show his dissatisfaction, albeit unconsciously, a man can use such expressions, demonstrating a position from above and an attitude towards a woman, like a toy or like a small, unreasonable creature that cannot understand something. But, of course, this is not always the case, some men just like to call their women that.

Women, with all their attention to their conditions, also sometimes harm themselves. Almost every woman can list up to 10 or more characteristics that her ideal man should have. And it is this list that forms the basis for the search for a future life partner. However, paradoxically, when meeting a man, a woman first of all draws attention to the fact that she is not satisfied with this person. And then the following happens, if she is unhappy with one, from her point of view, unworthy aspect in a man, then, despite all the advantages, even if they completely coincide with the qualities of her ideal man, she most likely will not develop such a relationship.

There are also situations when a man is dissatisfied with women in general, or vice versa, a woman finds all men unworthy of herself. In such cases, these people will express their dissatisfaction with the opposite sex constantly and in various places, they will complain. Such behavior may indicate that the person could not fully survive his negative experience of communication, and has nurtured a resentment within himself, which he is trying to defend against. But this option is unlikely to lead to positive results.

Bern has a wonderful description of the state when I am OK and You are OK. It is this attitude towards oneself and towards a partner that makes it possible to build healthy relationships.

Live with joy! Anton Chernykh.