2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Attention to women and men! Today I will reveal the main female secret. Moreover, I will open it for those and for others. I don’t know how you’ll live after that, but I can’t be silent any longer. But let's start over.
There is no woman in this world who does not have such a dream inside herself: "I am walking so beautiful along the street (options: sitting in a cafe, driving a car, etc.), but he sees me and understands that I am his destiny, and …. (There is a space) … And we live happily together and die in one day. "Question! What's going on in the gap?
But this is not the main thing!
The main question that a man should ask himself, whose brain has (well, why not?) The idea that this woman is his destiny, what should he do so that he is not kicked out?
Have you already seen the conflict?
On the one hand, she can wait all her life for this moment, but on the other … It is necessary to fill the gap.
I very often ask women (after they admit that such an idea lives inside their souls), what will be your first reaction if you are approached on the street (cafe, car)?
Most (!!!) women answer that they will react negatively and "blow away" the man. The cafe and the car (apparently we are talking about traffic jams) are not far behind the street, but they have a slightly higher chance of a positive answer. But on the whole, the picture is clear, the man has no chance.
A normal, intelligent, well-mannered girl (woman) is unlikely to consider the active attention of a random oncoming man as serious as it may be. Well, in my time, decent girls did not meet on the streets at all.
But in a modern world full of scammers, a sane girl will first of all think about danger, not attention to it. Given the general availability of women at the present time, when a man has become lazy and inactive, such activity should arouse suspicion.
If this is not the case for a woman, her instinct for self-preservation is damaged. Damaged by a disease called naivete. But that's a topic for another article.
The question is, how does this contradiction between expectation and reality manage to coexist peacefully inside a woman's head? Dead end. But he exists!
Now for men.
What to do? I know dozens of examples, told by men, that HE saw HER and thought that this was his future wife. Most of them have lived their entire lives together. There are good scenarios where Ivan Tsarevich met Vasilisa the Beautiful, and Ivan the Fool met Vasilisa the Wise, and they lived happily.
This experience somehow maintains in women their strange illusion described at the beginning. But only they do not take into account the reality that these two had the opportunity to continue communication, and not to disperse (part, scatter) in a stormy stream of life.
For example, they live nearby, work together, or have common acquaintances.
So this dream lives in the depths of a woman's soul as a hope that would long ago be strangled and live with reality.
But who will raise a hand for hope? And she dies last. Apparently, even after the owner …
Who is this article for:
For girls and women who have traumas of rejection in history that have eroded their trust and self-esteem. And now they live and feel lonely among people, confident that they will meet their prince only in a fabulous way. And at the same time they do not see those around them who would become a close person to them.
For men who are so afraid of being rejected, because they also have such a trauma in history, and give the initiative to others all their lives. Their life turns into constant following someone, while the path of a man is his own path.
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