2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Dasha (let's call her that), 31 years old - got the result
After 3 months of therapy, the girl met her potential husband. And after several months of relationship, she officially got married.
Many of my clients managed to meet partners, while others left the race.
What do you think: what is the difference between them?
- Maybe in my attitude?
- Some of the clients I liked more, and some less?
- Or did I give someone secret information or a formula for happiness?
The thing is that:
- Some realized that they were doing quite well alone.
- Others changed their request, because they are more important now than something else, for example: to build a career.
- Still others, a priori, were not ready to understand how it is: "to take responsibility for yourself"
- The fourth still have not grown up, and at the age of 30-40-50 they remained children who still cannot live without their mother's control.
- The fifth went into strong resistance and as an argument put forward their limiting beliefs "On dating sites, there are only idiots", "decent women on the street (in a restaurant, in a bar, on the beach) do not meet" and find a lot of benefits so as not to get acquainted anywhere.
As practice shows, you can look for a husband wherever there are “men”:
- In parking lots, parking lots
- On hikes
- In gyms
- In various clubs of interest
- And, of course, on dating sites. Where, now, without them?
It would seem that it is easier? You will be surprised, but there are girls who claim that they want to get married, but stubbornly do everything to avoid a fateful meeting:
- They just wait for years and decades - "happiness, it will find it on the stove!"
- They hope to meet their future partner in … a theater or museum, although they themselves note that mostly women go there, and if there are men, then with their "halves".
- They go on vacation with married girlfriends and their children.
Let me give you an analogy:
Why do I love this site and why do I prefer to write here and not on social networks?
Because psychologists and clients find each other here.
Because people came here with the goal of at least understanding themselves, and on social networks, not everyone sees this as a necessity.
Let's go back to the question indicated in the title
The result is obtained by women who are looking for where to find it really, and they are ready:
- Post on dating sites (where people are ready to meet) high-quality, made by professionals, photos
- It is interesting to talk about yourself in the questionnaire, from which the overestimated requirements were removed, for example: to find only a rich man who is ready to immediately adopt all children without looking, or a guy twenty years younger than himself, exclusively for serious relationships:)
- Write non-binding, friendly greetings to those men who are interested in them.
- Travel alone more often and visit various interesting places where men can appear.
- If necessary, change the usual way of life.
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