The Price Of A Real Relationship Is Death

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

The price of a real relationship is always death. There is no other price and cannot be. Divine alchemy does not turn on in another way, in order for a new molecule to appear from two separate atoms, it is necessary that the individual elements lose all their properties. Everything. Old personalities die in order for souls to manifest. The only purpose of a real marriage is to help the soul of your partner to manifest in all its beauty and splendor.

The real Eros always walks arm in arm with the real Thanatos. If a couple of Eros invites, but Thanatos does not admit, this is called fornication, not marriage. Passport seals, champagne and the birth of children do not change the properties of such a union. Rather, on the contrary, the more violently binding the pair of elements arise, the more acute the lack of Thanatos. After all, no one teaches us to die, burn, transform. And fornication, of course, is sweet, but only existential anxiety grows and nothing can calm it down. And no surrogates help. There is no substitute for Thanatos, except for Thanatos itself.

Many people avoid not only total death, but even minor wounds in relationships - minimal growing up. “It hurts,” the partners shout. If you don't want it to hurt, die quickly. There was not enough courage-energy for instant death - accept that the agony of the birth of a conjugal union will stretch for many years. After all, everything is simple: if you want to have a worthy partner - pay a decent price, if you do not want - enjoy freedom and look at someone's worthy partners. A cheap relationship cannot bring anything by definition.

“Where to get real men,” women ask, attending countless trainings. Kill the fake - right after death he will become real, as you want. Help him, make a prince out of the fool. Every real man has been killed by some woman. He passed his male initiation, burned down and was reborn from the ashes. I became not a boy, but a husband. And all real men know about this price of a real relationship and therefore behave strangely with cheap women who cannot understand what is missing in them: it seems that there is beauty and an affectionate voice.

There is not enough death in the female gaze. “You are the best of all your deaths, desired and the simplest,” I wrote in my youthful poem. With all my being, I understood that it was time for me to die, I was ready for this and was waiting for it. Men need this side of the feminine, they need renewal, it is important for them to go through their masculine initiation. Otherwise, they would not have fought these countless wars and not engaged in many risky things.

“I want everything to be easy,” a young woman told me recently. If you want it easy - kill with ease, die yourself instantly. Otherwise, such a burden …

And all women who have been initiated easily recognize cheap men, even if their pockets bulge out of money. They don't see much lust in his eyes. Why waste time and energy on someone who will not be killed, but only wounded. With whom you will not die, but just play?

“You have the look of a suicide bomber,” a friend of a former special forces soldier told me before my tenth trip to Peru, “in a war, guys with such a look quickly die. I am scared for you, I want to handcuff you to the battery and not let go of you until this glance passes. This is not a fiction, not a metaphor, a real story. I went to Peru. The most difficult journey of my life. War and women are not the only way to go through transformation. Many ancient cultures know how to take care of male initiation.

If you want to end wars on the planet, my dear women, learn to kill men. Give them the necessary energy of renewal and they will stop looking for it on the side. After all, a woman also becomes a woman in a sacred sense only by killing a man, melting with him into a completely different being, touching her feminine without place and time. And in men lives this thirst for leading a woman through her initiation, and he wants to hear: "I am ready to die in your arms." Without this phrase, everything is such a burden.

But women are scared - having met the one next to whom you can truly die, they run away from him and toil in their eternal spiritual virginity. The most perverted form of prostitution is the desire to kill someone and not die on their own, to force someone to transform, but to remain the same.

Men need an update. They go to such initiations, but they always leave. The converse is also true. Men are in need of renewal. They need the next stages of their maturation. You cannot update once and for all. And this is the price of a long-term relationship. Any long-term union is not one death, it is a cycle of deaths and new births. Therefore, a real married couple is filled with the deepest dignity. They know perfectly well what price they paid for their union. "Stop happiness, stop," cried the heroine of the famous film. Happiness cannot stand, it dies in the stall.

If you want to be an eternal wife, learn to be an eternal bride. Kill your partner at his first request, otherwise he will go to look for his death on the side. If you want to be an eternal husband, learn to be an eternal groom, with all that it implies.

Guilt is the most useless way to maintain marital fidelity. Every process has a wrong side. The partner who feels offended should deal with what he (she) did not give in the relationship, otherwise his offense will only grow. And those who feel guilty should look for what they did not receive. Otherwise, he (she) will really give up. When both sides of the same medal become visible, entitled: “We failed to die in our love. Our fears have conquered our feelings,”reconciliation will take place.

And I find it strange when people complain about the System. After all, the System consists and is supported by numerous boys who have not gone through their male initiations. And it is served by numerous girls who have not passed their initiations. All that men do explicitly, women do secretly. If a woman sells her soul for social privileges, you can be sure that her man will do the same. My student friends remember the Komsomol functionary - a well-fed and contented young man, confident that everything in his life is under control. And suddenly he lost weight, grew thin, his eyes became human, his voice ceased to be a Komsomol. I asked him what happened. Of course, the woman killed the functionary in him and revived the man.

If a couple decides not to have children, they should understand why their union was created. Survive another transformation, and not continue to stupidly deceive your own nature.

This article is more directed to women, just because it came this way. I do not consider women to be more responsible for friendship with Thanatos.