2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Position number 1. To increase her partner's interest in sex, a lady almost never uses any particularly "winding" underwear, stockings, seductive bodysuits or dressing gowns. Her clothes (including underwear), even if expensive and beautiful, are still sexually uninteresting.
Position number 2. The lady is convinced that any initiative for sex should come only from a man and almost never invites him to erotic games herself. That is why, despite the fact that she is good about using condoms, even after months of relationship with her partner, she never carries them with her in her purse and does not keep them at home, in the office or in her car.
Position number 3. A lady is always embarrassed by the presence of other people nearby (in the next room or office, in a car parked nearby, etc.). And this alone is enough for her to flatly refuse sex in any form.
Position number 4. The lady is generally categorically against sex in any place where there is no sofa, bed, and especially a shower. All these chairs, window sills and stools (just grass on the lawn, writing and kitchen tables, etc., etc.) are not for her! That is why it is almost impossible to get such sex from such a lady that it was not planned and agreed in advance!
Position number 5. The lady finds having sex in the car (especially while driving) a suitable activity only for poor students who have nowhere else to do this, and either categorically refuses it, or agrees to it only after very long persuasion (and this is extremely annoying for her man).
Position number 6. The lady does not know how to undress beautifully, she is ashamed of her body, she is very embarrassed to have sex in the light and very rarely agrees to this during the day or with the curtains open. It is not surprising that at the same time she cannot watch erotic films with her man, they do not arouse her interest and a surge of erotic emotions and are rather annoying.
Position number 7. The lady is deeply convinced that the presence of her "critical days" completely cuts off any male allusions to some kind of joint erotic activity and considers the satisfaction of a partner in some other way besides standard vaginal sex, though not that outrageous business (after all, she sometimes she sees it in films), but in any case, again, not for her. Her motto these days is simple: "Darling, be patient for a few days, and then it will already be possible …".
Position number 8. During the initial sexual games (foreplay), the lady does not show any interest in the male genital organ and does not touch it with her hands, patiently waiting until he reaches a "working state" completely on her own. And even if the male organ does not reach the desired state of erection, the lady still refuses to stimulate her man and simply offers to transfer sex somewhere “for later” when her man is “in better condition” than strikes a terrible blow by his male pride.
Position number 9. Having tuned in to normal vaginal sex, before the start of the actual sexual intercourse, the lady almost never pampers her man with the oral method, does not caress his intimate places with her hands or tongue. she mules him with his hands or oya in order to In her opinion, it is enough that she just kisses her man on the lips. (And she still can't understand why her man's mood at this moment noticeably deteriorates …)
Position number 10. During intercourse, the lady does not show the initiative to change the position, most often all the erotic action takes place in one or two poses. The lady herself almost never offers anything new in sex.
Position number 11. In the process of sexual intercourse, the lady never makes passionate body movements towards her partner and simply lies peacefully to herself (sits, stands), jealously making sure that her partner does not suddenly do something "inappropriate" and immediately grabbing his hands in if he touched something “wrong” (for example, her anus, breasts or buttocks)!
Position number 12. Having sex, a lady almost never uses her hands: she does not hug her man, does not scratch him, does not grab him by the shoulders, hips, buttocks, etc. If there were handrails in the bed, she would definitely take them! If there was a TV nearby, she would switch the remote!
Position number 13. A lady never takes the initiative to put a condom on her man with her own hands or mouth. She does not even know that this procedure, carried out precisely by ladies' hands, is something especially exciting for men.
Position number 14. Having sex, in addition to the actions of the partner, the lady never stimulates herself with her hands (does not caress herself on the chest, stomach, hips, etc.) and does not really like (or frankly does not allow) her partner to do this. The lady considers any kind of masturbation to be something completely indecent.
Position number 15. The lady diligently (or, if possible, or even in principle) avoids oral sex, or agrees to this with obvious reluctance. Oral sex itself (without subsequent vaginal sex) seems to her to be something suitable only for prostitutes!
Position number 16. Having sex, the lady categorically refuses anal sex, considers this type of sex to be savagery and sexual perversion.
Position number 17. The lady categorically does not recognize such a sexual technique when a man reaches a state of orgasm after his woman stimulates his organ with her breasts.
Position number 18. Seeing that her partner is already tired, but has not yet experienced an orgasm, the lady herself will never offer to help him with her hands or by oral means. In her opinion, a man's orgasm is his own business!
Position number 19. The lady is very disgusted with the male semen, and if in the process of intercourse at least a couple of drops (especially in the mouth!) Fall on any part of her body, she immediately resent (or silently portrays extreme irritation and at the same time disgust) and immediately runs to flee to bathroom.
Position number 20. Having sex, the lady either does not reach the state of orgasm at all, or diligently restrains her feelings: she does not moan, does not bend in bed, does not compliment her partner, does not ask him to speed up or slow down, does not praise his male abilities. After the end of intercourse, she immediately puts on underwear, brushes, dyes and often pretends at all as if she and her partner had nothing at all.
These are my twenty positions …
Now I give you about a couple of minutes to come to your senses and express some of your ladies' emotions. Some readers are delighted that in almost everything they correspond to male erotic expectations and ideas about a truly sexual partner. Others are out of sincere indignation that "these nonentities in jackets and ties need so much … And, you see, I may not suit them there in some way!"
But let's leave emotions aside for now. And I separately ask you not to spread someone's indignation to the author of these lines (that is, personally to me - Andrei Zberovsky). I especially emphasize: the list I have given is not at all a reflection of my personal approach to intimate life! He is just a “mirror”, a kind of more or less adequate reflection of the opinions of more than three thousand men I interviewed, who are at the most sexually active age from 20 to 45 years old.
At the same time, it should be borne in mind: those men who are now over 50-60 years old, much of the above Nevermind, and some people are from 14 to 20 years old, not yet needed … Both you and me are perfectly understandable. However, the fact remains: the most sexually active men between the ages of 20 and 45 (and these are probably the very men with whom you communicate), in their so-called “average” version, are most often dissatisfied with precisely those features of the female intimate behavior and temperament that have just been listed by me above. Whether someone likes it or not, this is so!
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