2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
So a love drama. Scene one. "Narcissus. Beginning and Promotion"
External exemplary illustration
He is a stunning handsome man, a successful student at a Moscow university; courteous, confident, positive; (yesterday's resident of a distant province).
She is mysterious, closed - "a thing in itself"; big-eyed, pure, feminine; (native Muscovite).
The positions taken out of the brackets and crossed out by the author seem to be not directly related to the case, but this is only at first glance. Instead of the above, other social bait-advantages for the narcissist are possible. After all, he "bites" on something for a reason. Narcissus is attracted only by benefits. To love others (not himself) he is not capable and does not know how!
Internal cut
Hero
The psychological algorithm for the subsequent actions of the narcissist is also absolutely calculated: fluff the peacock's tail, defeat with his superiority, subjugate himself completely, so that “he can wash his feet and drink water”, because he is so perfect.
And a calculated initial scenario, in which the narcissist lets himself go sincerely, with involvement, will work "without a hitch." And could it be otherwise, when an enchanting performance with the participation of the magnificent Knight, where the chosen one is the Queen, is played out in front of the timid quiet one? A fountain of unforgettable emotions, fireworks of magical passions, wonderful confessions, vows - and a "gray mouse" in a trap. What's next?!…
And everything went according to plan: painting, moving to the stupidly in love Tikhon in the capital, parental housing, for everything ready - in vain did he try? And when the desired goals are achieved, the hero will relax - after all, everything is already "in his pocket" - applause and a curtain, gentlemen! And in the next life act, a completely different face will appear on the stage - domineering, controlling, cold. What do you want? There was no scent of love in his story. After all, we are talking about a daffodil. And there - just a naked calculation.
Heroine
The psychological mix of her choice is also quite understandable: she does not and did not have what the narcissist has - impeccable gloss, theatrical charm, peacock charm. Such a chosen one for a girl is a prince from a fairy tale. “Ah,” thinks our modest girl, “how lucky I am! What a hero! What a knight!"
If she knew?! …
But time will tell her: the fairy tale is good on the surface and only at first glance. And in the depths of history there is a deafening, terrible emptiness, without meanings and without meanings - sheer consumption, one-sided benefit.
And now the unfortunate woman is already "head over heels" in the humiliating psychological slavery of a subtle, skillful inquisitor who will infringe on and use his victim - then she came. And also - to assert your superiority. Narcissus has no doubts: his chosen one is fantastically lucky, because he is such a handsome man and clever, and who is she? Does not know? Let him look at himself in the mirror!
… Take a break, friends! Intermission! Let's pause. A little later we will see how the action will continue … Ponder for now on what has been said …
Now about the conclusions. The meaning of my essay is to show the background of external psychological breakdowns and their impact on relationships and people's lives. Suddenly, for someone, this will be the first impetus for a conscious analysis of personal love dramas. After all, the matter is not in the external fate, but in the internal structures that require research, analysis and "repair"
/ The author of this publication is a professional psychologist Alena Viktorovna Blishchenko. /
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