2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Once upon a time there was a Firefly. Airy, tiny, free - it never bothers anyone. Only at the right moment it lit up, turning into a wondrous, beautiful Miracle, becoming an enchanting Star.
Once passed her dear mysterious hero Mask. I turned my attention. I thought: what a phenomenon - an imperceptible blade of grass, but sparkles and shines; not a bad game, perhaps; I'll assign it. And he rushed to conquer …
This mask is a special hero. Who he really was - no one knows. Perhaps no one. But he made an impression. Assuring the audience of their extraordinary merits. Throwing off shiny dust.
Everyone used to shout: "Charming!" "Bravo!" "Bis!" Clinging to the hook of his skillful acting. And then? Yes, in different ways. We're not talking about that now …
Mask was pleased with the general jubilation. Staying on the public throne. He considered himself a Genius, thought he was a Star. And the little star suited him well.
“Oh,” he thought of Firefly, “let me bless the quiet one. And for this? Let her completely submit to me alone: both day and night shine - forever! And he started to act, pretending to be love. He knew how to act!
The firefly was disarmed. No joke, such a hero, Mask offered her a stellar feeling. Her head is spinning. Her head is in the clouds - a blue sky. Yes, she stayed there.
The glow that the Firefly shone at the time of her relationship with the Mask, she never emitted - neither before nor after the alliance.
Their unification was accompanied, as usual behind the Masks, by noise, din, general pathos, chorus. So with a little world, a pirk, but for a wedding. Firefly got married. And then what? Do you think advice and love? Take your time, listen to me further …
… Musk was not going to act more for his wife: what for? - it is already conquered! And he could not broadcast the present, because he was not able to. And that's where it started. Not love, but a true chimera. Distorted. A flaw.
“Know your place, petty insect. Who are you in this life? Miserable, insignificant louse! And I? Look! A grandiose, expressive Mask! Small to me is your dim, dim light! I need spotlights and fame! You are not that! I'm tired of it!"
Mask didn't like the marriage. He was always welcomed everywhere. And he loved himself alone. This is where the true idyll is! And Firefly was waiting for responsibility, care. Helen, you see, overeat … Is there any pleasure and honor in this? After all, these women are fools! Ungrateful and dark fools!
“Away, despicable! I'll go look better! And set off in search of greater glory …
And Firefly, after parting with his beloved, beloved Mask, decreased a hundred times and almost stopped shining.
You understand: only winged stars shine, but never a louse at all …
It is so sad for everyone who has taken a chimera for true love. Love of the Mask is an illusion, a mirage, a ghost, a dangerous and deceiving intoxication, infinitely far from the bright Truth.
A fairy tale is a lie, but there is a hint in it, a lesson for all readers
When shiny, beautiful masks demonstrate something convincingly, just in case, check what they have behind the foil: is there content and what filling
From the author: dedicated to my beloved friend - Maria B.
/ The author of this publication is a professional psychologist Alena Viktorovna Blishchenko. /
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