2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Yin-yang, masculine-feminine principles are within us from the moment of conception.
We don't think about it. But the root of many problems in life lies
it is in the imbalance of the relationship between the inner man and the inner woman.
Even if you first thought about this topic, without your knowledge, the internal
“Inhabitants” (in psychology they are called subpersonalities) live their lives.
Between them, influenced by the example of the parental family and social
the environment has a certain relationship.
The inner man and the inner woman can love each other, hate
or to be indifferent and not notice each other. They experience complete
a range of emotions that are inherent in you. Yes, yes, inside you, on the unconscious
level, often without your knowledge there is a communication of the inner man
and the inner woman.
Why is it important to be aware of the presence of your “residents” and in what relationships
they are? Maybe you shouldn't raise this issue?
Let's figure it out
The attitude to something has a background, it is not laid out from scratch.
Due to the fact that the feminine and masculine principles are inherent in us from the very beginning, their
interaction with us, with each other is directly formed under the influence
close significant environment (parents, relatives), educators, teachers. Significant influence on the inner man and the inner woman
has a society through the media, regular communications
with strangers, cultural stereotypes and genetic memory.
As a result, we have differences in how we make decisions, act, take
responsibility for ourselves, we take risks, we build a career. These are the manifestations of our
inner man. It sets the vector of development.
Desires to care, love, create, be creative depend on
how developed the inner woman is. She is in charge of our ability
enjoy, inspire, the ability to support loved ones and
motivate a man to take decisive action.
When the inner woman conflicts with the inner man, divides the palm
primacy, we see a woman torn apart by doubts and worries.
If the inner “inhabitants” do not notice each other, the woman is in
the state “I want nothing, I have no strength”.
The ideal state is love between the inner man and the inner
a woman when he protects and protects her, in return receiving care, tenderness
and affection. This is a state of harmony and balance.
At the same time, the mistress of the inner man and the inner woman respects him, accepts and loves her.
Attitude towards the inner man is most often a repetition of the model.
interactions between mom and dad. If mom did not show care and love for
father, worked a lot, ensured the material well-being of the family, performing male functions, then most likely the daughter will transfer this model
in relationships with real men and with the inner man. As a result, she
will not accept this part of himself and its usual state will either
manifestation of aggression or depression.
The acceptance of the inner woman is directly related to self-esteem. And again
We are looking for the foundation of self-love in the parental family. In relation to the mother
to himself, in the way the father took care of her and his daughter.
Note that the purpose of this article is not to blame parents for children's problems. No.
We are talking about the fact that behavioral patterns learned in childhood
have a key impact on later life. But that doesn't mean at all
that our relationship with the inner man and the inner woman
constant and unchanging. Under the influence of many factors, this
interaction is changing. And we can take control of this side of life
using various techniques and techniques.
If you feel that this topic is relevant to you and you want to find
way out of the labyrinth of dead ends and constant internal conflict
between your inner man and woman, I invite you
participate in my author's program “The Art of Femininity”, where step by step you will get to know your inner
residents and will be able to create an atmosphere of harmony and happiness in your
inner world.
Before you start managing something, you need to understand the initial state, that is, get to know the inner woman and the inner man and
admit that they have some difficulties between them and you
interactions that interfere with your calm, harmonious life.
There is a simple dating technique that takes 10 minutes, within
which you will learn a lot of new and amazing things about yourself.
Take just 10 minutes to get to know your inner man
and an inner woman! And your perception of yourself, your attitude towards yourself will change …
Technique "Getting to know the inner woman and the inner man"
Find a place where no one will bother you. Sit comfortably
take three deep breaths in and out. Close your eyes. Imagine that
you asked yourself out on a date. To a very beautiful place. What's this?
A restaurant, a park, an observation deck overlooking the city, or maybe the ocean shore?
You dress beautifully, do styling, make-up, a couple of drops of your beloved
perfume. Everything must be flawless: you go to a meeting with the most important thing.
a person in life - with yourself.
Approach the indicated time, a woman is coming towards you. Imagine, how she looks, how old is she, what she is wearing, how she moves, talks.
Maybe she is silent? How she behaves towards you - friendly
or detached? Talk to her. Listen carefully to what she will be
speak. Is she eager to continue the conversation or is she leaving?
Now imagine that a man is walking towards you. What does he look like?
Describe it down to the smallest detail. Age, eye color, hair, age. What is he wearing?
What is his timbre of voice? Describe your gait and movement. What is he doing?
Talking to you or keeping quiet? Sitting or standing? Is he calm or
nervous? Chat with him.
Open your eyes. What impression did you have from meeting a woman?
and a man?
You have just met your inner woman and inner
a man. Remember, or better write down everything that you just saw and
felt. This is invaluable information from your unconscious.
Working with her, you can find answers to many questions tormenting you, get rid of most of the complexes, gain confidence and love
to yourself. Can you walk this path yourself? Sure. It's a long road.
Cut it down and make a journey into the world of your inner man and
inner woman as comfortable as possible, it is personal
coaching for deep work.
With love and care, Olga Salodkaya
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