2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
“They have a virus epidemic, and we have a Lego epidemic! Uraaa! - Matvey shouted today and threw another container with the details of the constructor on the floor
Matvey, my youngest son, likes to have fun. With a loud laugh, not particularly straining on some necessary "business" that people invented in order to "live culturally." Quarantine is no exception.
Both Matvey and each of us experience this quarantine in our own way.
To some he is in joy, and to others in sorrow, everyone has their own understanding and explanation.
And therefore, everyone now, except for the coronavirus pandemic, is experiencing "My own epidemic."
Someone began repairs in the house, which they always did not reach, but now they have, because it turned out that the most important thing is comfort in your own home.
Someone made peace with their parents, with whom they had not communicated for several years, because it turned out that creating conditions for them to be alive is more important than remembering minor grievances.
Someone was angry with the government, and did not notice how this anger more and more captures his soul and turns people away from him - it turned out that the most important thing is to be able to express your anger and disagreement aloud.
Someone stocked up on condoms and made up for the days and nights missed because of work with their wife, because it turned out that the most important thing is love, not business.
Someone managed to quarrel with the children, because the most important thing for him is to prove his case no matter what.
Someone managed to improve relations with children, because the hustle and bustle and work have always stood in the way of this, but it turned out that the main thing is to sleep and sniff in a crib.
Someone who has known success is shaking in anxiety to lose everything, because without money he does not know his value and does not feel the importance - money turned out to be the most important thing.
Someone, hungry and impudent, rubs his hands and plans to launch his own startup, it turned out that the crisis is for
this is the best kick in the ass.
Someone volunteered because the most important thing is to save another.
Someone started the path to divorce, because the most important thing is to save yourself.
Everyone, without stopping for a minute, goes their own way.
Everyone now has their own epidemic: love, hate, kindness, disappointment, fear, plans for the future or regret about the past.
Everyone will become different after this quarantine
These changes are already taking place: unconsciously, imperceptibly, as if by accident
Want to make adjustments?
1. Remember how you entered this quarantine.
2. Imagine how you want to get out of it.
3. Don't waste time, get creative!
A lot depends on us today
That is why we have a Lego epidemic in our family today.
And you?
Psychologist Svetlana Ripka
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