2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Technique of work with IAC "Child - the mirror of the family"
Who can use in work: psychologists at preschool institutions, school psychologists, family psychologists, child psychologists, psychologists of services for supporting foster families.
Examples of client requests: the child misbehaves, the child does not study well, the child has trouble sleeping, children are often ill, etc.
This technique works to expose a symptom when a child's misbehavior or illness, for example, is a symptom of unconscious problems in the family or something that is hushed up or hidden.
It often happens when a psychologist tells parents that a child's difficulties are like a mirroring of what is happening in their family at home, parents do not believe, do not hear a specialist, it is difficult for them to accept it. After all, in fact, it turns out that it is not the child that is “sick” and that it does not need to be “repaired” or “treated,” as some parents believe. It is necessary to work with parents and with the family as a whole, with that real symptom that triggered the mechanism of "badness" in the child.
It should be added that it does not always happen that a child is sick or does not study well because something is wrong in the family. Sometimes "a banana is just a banana" and there is no need to look for a double meaning. We are talking about consistency, about the constancy of the manifestation of a symptom in a situation of frequently repeated similar events.
Decks in work: "From the Chest of the Past", "ON", "Subpersonalities", "Anima", "Tan doo" (or "Family Stories" deck), "Soul Lessons".
Layout description:
- “From the chest of the past”: / How does the child in our family feel? Open, discuss. Ask your parents if this is similar to what happens in real life. If the answer is “no, it’s not at all like”, etc., often, this indicates a denial of the problem in the family, etc.
- From "Subpersonality" (for the male figure in the family): / The image of the father in the family for the child / face down 1 card. Open, discuss.
- From Anima (for a female figure in a family): / The image of a mother in a family for a child / face down 1 card. Open, discuss.
- From Tan doo: / Family Relations. How does the child see them? / Face down 1 card. Open, discuss.
- From "Lessons of the Soul" and "OH - Words": / What does the child want to say with his symptom? / Into a closed one, 1 card from each deck. Open, discuss.
- From the "OH-image": / What needs to be done to solve the problem? / Into a closed card, 1 card for each parent. Open, discuss.
- From the "Chest of the Past": / How will the child feel when the problem is solved? / Face down 1 card. Open, discuss.
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