2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Narcissistic violence is usually without physical abuse - bruises and fractures. Its signs are invisible and it is difficult even for a specialist to determine tyranny.
Abuse of power, despotism, blackmail, manipulation, pressure, deception, ignorance, neglect, gaslighting are not all of the narcissist's tools. They are no better than assault because they lead to "spiritual rape" and over time destroy the "victim's" confidence and self-esteem. The victim is not aware of what is happening until he is broken as a person.
How does a partner feel when trying to mend a relationship with a narcissist?
- DIFFICULTY pinpointing exactly what is feeling
- DISAPPOINTMENT with who he / she seems now, compared to how he / she was in the early stages of the relationship
- Embarrassment due to lies or half-truths that the narcissist constantly feeds
- Misunderstanding - first; PAIN AND SHOCK - then (from the shock of the many ways the narcissist humiliates, criticizes, devalues)
- INABILITY to share real intimacy with the narcissist: it seems that the relationship is not important to him, is he really "in it"?
- Self-doubt, misunderstanding of what is true (due to the uncertainty of the situation, the illogicality of his actions)
- LACK of desired happy relationships
- FAILURE from a narcissist's change in behavior: how can he be cute one minute, and angry and callous the next?
- Upset when the narcissist doesn't follow through on an agreement, work on a relationship, or fix a situation
- Despair of realizing that the narcissist does not really care about the partner or his feelings, and often cannot understand them at all
In the following articles, I will talk about how to recognize narcissists and give examples of their behavior.
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