2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
A child is already a personality, he tirelessly explores everything that surrounds him. Today there are many developmental techniques. And parents often wonder what to choose, which development center will go to, where will the baby be better ?! Or maybe it is worth working with the child only at home?
Let's figure it out together.
It is important to understand that the development of the child must be, first of all, timely. This means that a particular child is physically and psychologically ready to perceive a particular skill or some information. It doesn't matter what visual material the parent uses - cubes, insert frames, alphabet. It is important that what the child sees around him is a little ahead of his development.
If you read books to a child, he sees that there are letters, and at some point he will simply start asking: "What is written there?" This question will indicate that the child is ready to learn to read.
But if you actively offer the child to master some skill ahead of time, the child will master it, but at the expense of something else. Relatively speaking, a child learns to read ahead of time, but not learn to jump on one leg or tie his shoelaces.
At one time, Maria Montessori introduced such a concept as "sensitive age", that is, the age when the child's brain is maximally ready to master a particular skill. If a child in his development skips this age, then he will still master this skill, but with much greater costs and losses.
You can't teach a child to read at two years old, instead of sculpting Easter cakes with him. Because making Easter cakes, throwing a ball, riding a bicycle at two years old is undoubtedly more useful than reading.
Even if a child learns to put letters into words, he still won't read. Most likely, he will just guess the words that he remembered. Many children use this trick to mislead their parents. They still begin to really read exactly when they need to start reading: at their five, six, seven years old.
It is very important not to retrain the child, because at some point the child may begin to feel disgust for learning.
Parents' mistakes when preparing a child for school.
Many parents are so keen on developing activities for children that while still in kindergarten, children go through the entire school curriculum in 1 grade. This does not need to be done, because because the child will simply not be interested in learning.
If a child has a need to learn something new, then it is better to implement it without getting ahead of the school curriculum. There are many circles, sections. The child will definitely be able to choose what he likes.
Summary
Dear Parents. It doesn’t matter whether you will study with your child at home or go to class in a group. It is important to give the child the knowledge that he can do. Do not rush to teach your child the multiplication table, hire teachers to learn foreign languages.
The preschooler's leading activity is play. With the help of the game, the child learns the world. It is important that the child has good, "right" toys, so that he has a place where he can play. The most important thing is to read to the child, to talk about the world around him.
And remember! It is better not to add superdevelopment than to squeeze and discourage the child's interest at all.
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