2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
STATION LIFE.
Have you ever met people who are content with only little? Who could live happily and fully, but instead live waiting for the train? Who could enjoy delicious coffee on the platform, and instead just sit and wait. On a suitcase. Pretending that they do not need other conditions. That you still won't have time for anything, - the train … That you won't have time to solve important issues, because you leave in 40 minutes. That there is no time to call a friend and wish him a happy birthday. And so all my life …
And so all their lives such people will not remove dirty dishes from the table, and will not even move away to sit comfortably at the table … They will not ask for a salary increase, indignant 15 years to a colleague in the shop that they deserve a raise and they need it for life. Who darn socks 18 times, but won't buy new ones. They survive, having resigned themselves to any twists and turns in everyday life, without even "turning on", which is not normal.
Have you met? So I recently met such a person.
I am without condemnation, evaluations and criticism - such people consider their life acceptable and have every right to live as they want. And they have the right not to react to the ambitions and desires of other people. I am simply deeply surprised when a person says to me: “You know, but I don’t need anything in this life. There is bread and water and it's good."
I was at a loss, and as always, I turned on the analysis and the "sort it out" mode. I wanted to know why. And I tried to understand "What's going on?" before asking a question.
- A man is happy with his bread and water, and there is no need to go to him with stories about butter and caviar. He grew up to the 50th level of being and got rid of material cravings.
- A person grew up / lived in a certain environment where it is not customary to raise his head, strive, etc. He was simply not taught and there were no examples around.
- The man has been so "muffled", devalued and spat upon, that he no longer wants anything else. A person does not believe that he is worthy of good and will be able to cope with problems.
- He has a bunch of everything in his soul that he does not want to "rake" and all this manifests itself in life and everyday life.
- Too lazy to strain, to do something with his life, and in general he is tired of life (constantly resisting, cursing power, hypocrisy to himself and others, playing roles, etc.).
My stream of consciousness was streamlined, and I was able to find the correct adequate words, choose intonation without judgment and criticism, and asked with sincere interest:
"Tell me why you live in the hallway of life for decades?"
And the answer sent me to the astral plane:
"And what? Here is a child (30 years old, if anything) on his feet and everything will fall into place, and I will take up my life. I'm only 56 now"
And I got it.
This person, having bought a coffee maker 25 years ago, keeps it in the closet without ever using it. This is a person who will save money for an apartment all his life and eat only pasta for 20 years. This is the person who is waiting for the train.
I am in favor of LIVING life, and not waiting for it to come at 55.
! Clean the apartment right now, 3 days before the business trip, not 5 days after it.
! Right now, admit your desires to yourself and allow yourself version 2.0.
! Eating from a clean, pretty plate right now, not sausage sliced on a cutting board.
! Go to bed on satin bedding, which has been in the closet for the 4th year already, and not on a cheap fleece blanket …
Is it time to stop procrastinating?
Is it time to become what you wanted 10 years ago?
Is it time to stop sleeping at the train station of life?
Is it time to allow yourself to take what you want from life?
What do you think?
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