2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
"A woman with Stalin inside"
WE ARE RAISED TO BE STRONG, NOT HAPPY!
Your Mom survived, built BAM, worked 3 jobs and said or showed:
"Daughter! You must be strong! Such a life!"
"Men are unreliable and you should only rely on yourself"
"Guys are bastards"
"Men only need to be manipulated"
"You have to work hard so that you don't depend on anyone, especially men."
You were sent to kindergarten early, then your parents didn't have time. And some kind of aunt Fronya in this garden raised you … well, as best she could. And when you wanted, and you wanted to pee to the toilet at a sleepy hour, you were usually forbidden, because you were not supposed to !!! And by clenching your teeth you learned to endure both moral and physical pain and discomfort.
At school, you were supposed to be like everyone else. As everybody!!! Same shape, same bows. And you are not a girl, but only a future citizen. As everybody! And just try to stand out, the teachers' council will wait for you and all the consequences that follow from there too.
At the institute, your aunt Alya secretly said that if you don't get married, you will remain an old girl. Well…
In marriage, you plow a lot, work for three, well, like your mother, you also have children … and you are a mother, you always have to, and for some reason not only to children! You do everything for everyone and for the husband who is on the couch or somewhere. And you know for sure that there are no normal men left. But it is interesting that at the same time you try to be good for everyone, ask for little, and at 40 you are no longer a girl, you are already that aunt or aunt Fronya. No style, no femininity, no clear eyes. In general, the life of a workhorse took place for the good of everyone! But on the other hand, you will stop the horse and drive it into the burning hut for sure …
And who is the husband next to you ?!
-he is either broken, infantile and unwilling to decide and do anything. Or decides, but at your expense
-or behaves aggressively, proving in this way that he is a man in the house.
- or he leaves, because he is normal and will not live with a competing number of a half-man! And if you are so strong and all by yourself, then you don't need me. And closes the doors behind him.
……………………
How do you find this perfect formula for "strong and happy"? Sure, not a problem! This is not a difficult task for a Woman who wants to be happy. It would just be nice to see other beautiful, feminine sides in yourself. Appreciate yourself at your true worth, for real, like this with such a burning desire to love yourself and believe that I want and can live and enjoy this life.
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