2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
The sweet, unsuspecting victim walks happily along the sunny side of life. She has the lightness of a moth in her soul. All that is missing is the tinplate of our love werewolf. And if he crosses with someone on the sun-drenched asphalt, his gestalt will definitely come to the stage of completion.
At one time, each of us was tortured emotionally. Whether we liked it or not, there were reasons to endure this pain. And some even got a kind of perversion of pleasure from her. But you, who are ready to endlessly endure discomfort in a relationship, were just "thrown". You were not the first to break loose, but your tormentor was tired of tormenting you endlessly.
And when the years of raking the Augean stables in your head have passed, when you have calmed down a little, the one who is now ready to endure your "quirks" turns up. How strange it is to see in yourself: you, so correct and unhappy, suddenly begin to trample. What they once finished off you apparently did not make you stronger, but sprouted in grain to make you weaker than the other. Your new passion.
With some doubt about what is happening, but, as if under the influence of an outside force, you begin to replay the script of those relationships that once crushed you.
If you look at what is happening, the conclusion suggests itself that in the new tandem, too, a break should soon come. On your initiative. And the new person will get the pain from you to go with your unfinished gestalt further through life.
Probably, in order not to become a source of sadomasochistic infection in a relationship, you should feel, live, work through and accept your negative experience. Understand and regret from the bottom of your heart the previous partner with whom you did not work out. Someone who once hurt you. The one into which, over time, you have become …
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