2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
The topic of sex and sexuality in society is usually complex and sometimes contradictory. Someone attracts and excites consciousness, someone, on the contrary, repels and causes disgust
It does not cause complex feelings and reactions only among those who deal harmoniously with their sexuality both in their personal life and in society. I will try to clarify my professional position and experience in simple and understandable words.
There are many myths about sexuality.
Here are just a few of them:
1) A bright, flashy image, catchy colors are very sexy. Yes and no. Indeed, there are certain colors, such as red and orange, which have a stimulating effect, there is a desire to approach, touch, possess an object in red. But, here, firstly, we see only the shell and react with certain receptors, because bright fruits also excite more, we want to eat them. Secondly, no one understands what is inside, under the shell, without noticing a person there, a personality with its own differences and interests. Thirdly, in nature, this is precisely the coloring that frightens off the enemy, if translated into human understanding, the protection of one's own vulnerability and sensitivity.
2) The woman in red is more approachable. What matters is not what you are wearing, but how dignified you behave in this image. Women in red are not always available, but they are definitely more visible. So you should not, without first checking, pester a woman with obscene proposals (unless, of course, she is your own and most beloved, and most importantly, she will be pleased). Red is not a reason to belittle a woman's dignity by telling her that she looks defiant, inappropriate, and generally not decent.
3) It's not proper to be sexy, not beautiful, it's a shame. This is a whole painful story of many women. For too long, from generation to generation, women have been told that it is not permissible to behave with any hint of sexuality. And after all, no one wanted to discredit an honest and decent family, which gave such a correct, but asexual upbringing. Yes, even to be beautiful is not decent, it seems for this and burned at the stake. In those days, I would not have written this article either. Now they do not burn, of course, but the punishment is provided: public censure and depreciation. Because you can't be so beautiful and sexy in the world!
4) Sex is important only for the horny and horny. True, the sex industry has launched a not-so-good virus into the minds of people. And then any person, regardless of his attitude to sex and sexuality, can feel this smack of lust. Let's try not to rush to extremes here: don't put sex on a pedestal and don't hide it in a black closet under seven locks. It is important to remember that this is the natural period of a man's relationship with a woman. And even if, you were once told that somewhere there was no sex, then the question is, where did the children come from ?! And they did appear! In fact, sex is part of a relationship in a couple, an element of love and pleasure, acceptance and participation, in general, sex is also a relationship and an attitude!
5) Being sexy is dangerous. Sexuality, however, can be frightening, both of the person himself and those around him. It causes conflicting feelings among others, and even if these manifestations of sexuality in another person are liked, not everyone admits it, and you can often get a backlash. Indeed, from what was described above, it is clear that this is somehow not very decent, not beautiful and very embarrassing. True, at the same time, somehow I really want to! So, a person takes risks and tries to release, at least a little, his sexuality from the captivity of upbringing and stereotypes. After all, whoever does not risk, he risks betraying himself!
Sexuality is a natural manifestation of life in a woman, she is rewarded with this energy by nature itself. Often, thanks to this very energy, a woman energizes her man and inspires deeds and heroism!
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