Lady Or Slut? Justifying Sexuality

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Video: Lady Or Slut? Justifying Sexuality
Video: The slut, the spinster and the perfect woman: Martha Mosse at TEDxCoventGardenWomen 2024, May
Lady Or Slut? Justifying Sexuality
Lady Or Slut? Justifying Sexuality
Anonim

Have you noticed which women are unanimously and unconditionally liked by men?

I want to clarify right away - for me a "whore" is not a withered and soaked moth, without a family, children and a permanent place of work. Not that poor girl in mini-shorts that the police take out by the arms from the station. The correct, modern and successful "whore" is a woman after whom men turn their heads. But only she alone decides what to do with these male heads.

I like to analyze phenomena, to decompose the complex into simple components. I did so with the inexplicable charm of sluts, highlighting three important components. So, here they are, the three main signs of a whore. We watch and learn.

1. Self-love!

Often I hear people say about this or that self-neglected woman - you need to get out of your comfort zone. But to be honest, most of the time I see a completely opposite picture. These women must first enter the comfort zone! Their entire lifestyle is full of dedication and lack of self-love. These women lose energy for their social roles - wife, mother, executive worker. For themselves, they have little dick energy left. They have not been to the doctor for years, because they have no time, and do not have time to walk in the evening, because they have to cook dinner! That is why they look tired, swollen or, on the contrary, haggard. They have no cult of food and increased voraciousness. They just shove everything into themselves, completely forgetting about their body! That is why their hair fades, their eyes fade and their figure becomes blurred!

The right whore is a woman who admits a share of healthy selfishness. This is a woman who at a certain period of time can say - STOP! Here is the border, when business letters wait, the husband washes his panties, and the children will warm up the dinner on their own. A virtuous woman sacrifices herself to her loved ones, even if they did not ask for anything like that. A woman in whom the dark side sometimes wins, subtly feels the line beyond which she turns into a loaded horse.

Excessive altruism is the weak point, first of all, of our Russian women. They try to be good for everyone, forgetting only one person - themselves. The right whore will always take care of herself, never deprive herself of attention. Society is shouting to us: first of all, a child! Husband! Parents! Ok, I took care of everyone! But why, then, am I at the very end of this list ???

2. Flirting!

Another taboo that society terrorizes married women is flirting on the side. It is believed that a decent wife should think to forget not only about flirtatious looks, but in general about sexual thoughts towards other men. But those who broadcast such thoughts do not understand a damn thing about female sexuality.

No matter how they screamed about female monogamy, but never, with the exception of a period of acute love, you can turn on the libido for just one person. Libido is like light, sound or smell! If one person senses its power, it means that others will also feel it.

If a man has a high libido, he will turn around after beautiful women, and this will not prevent him from loving his wife. Moreover, up to several times a day. The same goes for women. Having forbidden herself even a slight flirtation or thoughts about other men, she turns off her own libido, turning into a sexless something.

Once I heard an interesting phrase: a woman is interesting to her own husband only as long as she is interesting to other men. It seems to me that the woman who invented it was a genius! Indeed, there is not the slightest need to limit oneself in sexual fantasies. Moreover, the right "whore" constantly heats up his libido, being with men at various stages of flirting. And it is this quality that allows her to remain attractive in the eyes of her own man for a long time!

3. Awareness of their own sexual needs.

Another quality that has been underground for a long time, or even punished with shame, is a woman's awareness of her sexual needs.

Yes, we need sex no less than men, and even much more. And if everything in this world were fair, then we would have to pay men for sex, and not they should pay us.

A good female orgasm is comparable to the amount of high received with an intravenous drug, but has no side effects. A woman who has learned to be aware of her sexual desires and control them gains access to an inexhaustible source of happiness, pleasure and inspiration. To deny yourself such a high is mean and stupid.

Being aware of your sexual needs and managing them does not mean going over as many men as possible in search of a high. As it is sung in one folk ditty "There is no quality of men, no need for their quantity!"

Rather, I mean by this knowledge of my body and what brings him pleasure and the ability to take it from a man. Today, after so many centuries of prohibitions, women have the opportunity to play white. Today we choose partners to taste, we dictate to them the style and essence of the act of love. At least the real right sluts do just that!

Being a modern, correct and self-respecting "slut" is not always easy. Sometimes this runs counter to the demands of a patriarchal male society that wants us to be "ladies." But damn it, this is so delicious!

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