2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
"The nobility of a person is measured by the risk that he takes, defending his own judgments - in other words, potential losses" N. Taleb
With this quote, I will open a series of posts about what distinguishes a Child - Adult and an Adult - Adult.
Responsibility.
The main part of therapy is to analyze the state of personality formation and if there are suspicions that the person is stuck at some stage, then help her go through it.
But, as a rule, most people get stuck in tz. the "dependent period" and, as a consequence, do not move to the adolescent stage of healthy separation from the family. Therefore, often and very often the therapist needs to go through these stages by hand with the client in order to finally safely separate from the matrix - the family.
This division is directly related to two important principles:
- making decisions;
- responsibility.
One cannot exist without the other. Responsibility is to follow the decision made, despite potential losses, but also potential acquisitions. Making a decision is a volitional act of taking responsibility for any outcome of a given decision.
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