What To Live With You About?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Why do some women in their forties start to hate men, and aging men become misogines?

I am happy to note that feminism in Russia is becoming fashionable among women, and now recognition in patriarchal views can slightly tarnish the reputation.

Given the desperate situation of domestic violence, it is imperative that girls grow up with their right to equality, respect and security. But next to the most beautiful movement there are always people scurrying about bringing the idea to the point of absurdity.

I see quite a few women around me who hate men, but worst of all, they call themselves feminists and compromise the phenomenon.

Why men and women hate each other

If we talk about the collective image, then usually this is a desperate woman over forty, who buried dreams of love and solemnly cursed the men. Every man in her version is a weak, but evil, lustful, but powerless creature, full of vices, but devoid of even negative charm; he cannot do anything - take an interest in women, approach children, count on politeness.

These feisty ladies have always existed, but before they did not cling to feminism, and now they are trying to legalize their hatred, hiding behind the right ideas, and this is terribly insulting.

In essence, aggression is a pure consequence of frustration, they now devalue what the previous thirty years have been striving for unsuccessfully, and can throw out irritation on nasty men and more successful women.

Male age-related misogyny has a slightly different nature. No matter how many adventures and relationships there are in life, one day it turns out that the world of great sex is lost for a man: it is no longer good for young girls, he has not made money to increase attractiveness, and even if he can lure someone into bed, he risks not coping. She will not cope with a woman of the same age, all the more, because her body is not perfect, and youthful testosterone, which allows not to notice it, has long been gone.

And a man finds himself in a garden of green grapes and inedible pumpkins: some do not give, with others he simply cannot. And how can one not feel hatred amid these tantalum torments? Girls are declared selfish fools, and mature people are generally denied the right to be called women.

Such a person constantly tells what a woman is obliged to do (spoiler alert: everything), how she should look in order to rekindle his extinct sensuality, dictates to her the meaning of life - to catch the male (that is).

It says a lot about the fact that no one needs marriage, and a woman over thirty-five is permissible in this world except as a grandmother.

Here you begin to understand the man-haters from the previous paragraph - they like to talk about these types, meaning that everyone around them is like that, and denying wonderful strong men, who are in the majority, but who do not scream so loudly and enjoy maturity and adult love.

And I thought a lot about why this dreary reality is formed in the heads of aged people who were previously passionate, sensitive and sensual. Often, the hotter they were in their youth, the more grumpy they are now.

And I think I have found the answer. These are those who have not matured, have not learned to interact and coexist.

Previously, everything was covered with hormonal surges, neuroses, mistaken for love, or the zombie program "marry and give birth."

The immature, but rotten girls and boys are confused: they no longer want her, he can no longer - and now what to do?

They really do not understand that if you cannot fuck with you until bloody calluses (and fall in love until pink saliva), then what to live with you about?

They simply have not grown and developed an apparatus that allows them to love and respect another person, they essentially do not know how to communicate and get along outside of bed.

This construction "and why should I have a man / woman in my house" is not shocking - they completely sincerely do not understand.

Why cherish another person, what kind of proximity can be above the waist, what to do together in an upright position.

They still need sex, but not so badly, so unsatisfied desire becomes a kind of constant irritant, which is still not worth having a permanent partner - well, you slept with him, and what, talk? Interested in his world? Learning to live side by side? To delve into other people's desires? Find common goals? And how is it, and why?

It is easier to go into hatred and denial of any meaning of the other sex. And those who know how to live in pairs are declared henpecked, member hunters or backward patriarchal personalities.

And this time I don't even have a positive ending - and it's a pity, I would like there to be a way to grow and mature in old age.