2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
What happened in the beginning is a rhetorical question, but not suitable for all situations. The history of modern feminism and the emancipation of women is not so great, only a little over a hundred years. But she radically changed the relationship between a man and a woman. I am tempted to analyze what led to emancipation, but I will devote this article to what it led to.
Sometimes I think, what type of woman, if I were a man, would I want? And before me appears a modest, selflessly loving, loyal, fragile, but hardy woman. With a dull, but cute appearance. A silent companion, ready to be my friend, mother and daughter. She does not ask unnecessary questions and does not require much. She is hardworking and caring. She does not criticize my actions, and in case of failure, she is always ready to help me. Her devotion and love should become that safe haven that is always waiting for her ship. She is strong and weak. And she's always second. After me. And this does not just suit her, she needs it. This place protects her from a dangerous world and gives her room for the embodiment of her feminine concerns and joys: family, children, creativity in the kitchen, in the garden, at the easel or loom. And when I present this picture, the first thing I think about is "thank God I'm not a man!" Because that type has disappeared. He disappeared along with strong charismatic men, real fathers and masters of life. Who disappeared first, I do not know. Perhaps hundreds of years of suppression of the feminine principle gave rise to emancipation, and she has already finished off such men. And, perhaps, the opposite. And everything would be fine, only that genetic memory constantly evokes these images as standards of male and female. And then the man demands the described behavior from the woman, but even if he suddenly receives, he does not know at all what to do with it. And then women have a new reason to erase this image as backward and downtrodden. At the same time, secretly dreaming to be like that. But does she confess. The second thing I think about is that even having met such a man, I will not be able to become this woman. It's not that I don't want to, I just can't. That's it, fan fatal … The described female version embodies the positive features of the Mother archetype: love, loyalty, humility, acceptance and love again. Now the archetype has turned 180 '. And we have before us another option with a strong maternal principle, only this time with its negative side. Strong, read aggressive, active, striving to master everything that she likes. This woman will not be faithful if she does not like the behavior of her partner. She will look for another. She believes that she is obliged to have her own opinion on everything and competition with a man turns her on. To be silent? Never. She carries good intentions like a flag, not noticing the consequences of her stormy march through life. Motherhood? Cross stitching? You're kidding me. The task is to prove that she can do everything herself. Today, when a woman only needs a sperm and not a sperm producer, the man has become an unnecessary supplement. A boring, puffy, soft mama's son who needs to be nursed. But then a woman does not have time for her own children, whom he is not in the desire (competitors) and is not able to raise. And if he still retained some bright gender differences, then he himself is bored with a sweet and caring, when bright and seductive flutters around. And he's in cleavage. Saint or Whore? Whom to choose? In short, everything happened. The process is irreversible. Except for a global catastrophe, after which masculine strength and ingenuity in survival would become so necessary for a woman. And for this she will keep silent, and take a deep breath, and tolerate … and she will like it, I give you my word!
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