2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
The question is often asked:
- What happens in a man's head when he chooses a companion?
A woman climbs into the mind of a man like a scout. He wants to understand, but is undermined by a mine:
- Don't take my brain out! - the answer is sharp and precise.
If a woman does not agree, then she is quickly or slowly erased from the radar of male reality.
Whom does he choose?
If a man is successful, strong, healthy in body and mind, then he is a bait for women from 18 to 50+, there is a struggle for him.
The glossy shop window has ceased to attract men. There was a transition from young models, predators with a set of tools for seducing girlfriends for life. The man changes "I am super-sex" to "I am not afraid of the crisis." You are probably thinking economic? No. The crisis in the head is age-related. It starts when it hits forty. This age encourages men to change and change their lives. The main achievements are capital that pays dividends and freedom. If the first wife does not satisfy, nags or creates obstacles to satisfaction, then you can share with her a part of what you have acquired and forget about it as a mistake of youth.
He deliberately chooses his second wife. There are family experiences and mature choices. With her, as with a friend, she speaks heart to heart, presses to her shoulder, purrs to the blues of Joe Bonamassa, share news, plans the future. She will calm, prompt, keep silent, and do something herself. A faithful wife, a keeper of the hearth, a clever girl, knows what is best. But, something is wrong. Traveling, going to premieres, without obsessive glamor, do not entertain, do not bring pleasure. Emptiness appears in life. He doesn't know how to fill it.
What is he thinking about?
- “… I guess I live correctly. I know how to earn and spend money, I do not deny myself, my wife, children. Suddenly, there was a problem with health, with sex. You can get medical treatment in Switzerland or fly to Israel. The wife understands, does not require sexual exploits. Looking for good specialists. I am with a businesslike and understanding wife, but there is no satisfaction and peace. And Uncle Vasya, 70 years old, does not go to clinics. She says that the neighbor's Tamara is juicier than Zoya."
For an accomplished man, when there is no sex, a turning point in fate. Life ends, it loses its meaning. Resign yourself to the sighs of your spouse and relatives, sit in a rocking chair, cover yourself with a blanket, follow the ratings and charts on the stock exchanges. Or go further.
Where to?
There are not many scenarios for human lives. Evidence in literary works, films. They show the same thing. During his life, a man changes more than one wife and several mistresses.
He is looking for a special type of woman who can inspire, raise his potential beyond material well-being. She has a natural gift: sexuality, confidence, the ability to destroy and create. If its material boundaries have been mastered, have touched a reasonable limit, but have become everyday life, then changes will come. To go beyond the familiar and familiar is what a mature, self-confident man needs. He needs a woman who will make him the creator of a reality where satisfaction and tranquility are achieved, without failures and illnesses. The past ceases to exist because the past. A wave of new sensations and creativity rises to another level of being.
Meeting such a woman for a man as alpha and omega, as the beginning and end.
I wrote the text for the first, second, third … wives or women in search.
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