2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
The first, and most important, thing you should do before the relationship is not love yourself. Consider yourself unworthy of love and true intimacy. This is the foundation. Something that guarantees you one hundred percent success in killing relationships
To increase self-loathing, scold yourself more often. 7-79 times a day. It works more often, do it as often as possible. Scold and devalue. You can, to enhance success, also scold all the men in the world as all-goats. With all this, do not forget to dream of meeting that one and only. It is advisable to consider him as your soul mate. Don't feel whole and self-sufficient. Be sure that only your significant other will make you happy and save you from all troubles. Even better, if you consider that your significant other is one single man out of 3.5 billion people living on the planet earth. Despair that you may meet him, but continue to crave it.
Draw a "portrait of the man of your dreams." Describe all of its qualities. Do not be stingy, list everything you dream of. You are now absolutely ready. Just sit and wait. He himself will come into your life. The man of your dreams. Where he meets you - let the Universe take care of it.
So he came. Go on, be sure to continue to dislike yourself and consider yourself unworthy. At the same time, do not forget to be glad that your meeting took place. Now - idealize him. Find in it all the qualities that you painted in the portrait. All 57. And nothing else. Let him be kind, caring, affectionate, gentle, understanding, loving, rich, with a great sense of humor, supportive and generous for you. What else did you indicate on your list? Idealize and wait for him to make you happy. After all, for this he appeared in your life. Desire to meet with him, consider that he is obliged to spend with you all day long. This wonderful, wealthy business owner. (was this item I hope was on your list?). Demand from him compliance with his ideal and the fulfillment of all your desires, preferably instantly. Throw all your affairs, girlfriends, work, focus all your attention on him. You have been waiting for this meeting for so long.
Now, learn to get angry. And every time he doesn't look like your perfect portrait, get mad at him. Blame. It is advisable not to tell him directly about your displeasure, come up with metaphors and florid statements. Continue to demand compliance with the list.
Start suffering. Think about not loving yourself and not being worthy. You may be scared. That if you are unworthy, then you will lose it. If you get scared, gradually increase the fear. Don't trust him in any way. Every time you are not together, turn on your fantasy: paint yourself scenes of violent and passionate betrayal and indifference to you. Not trusting is generally very important if you want to kill a relationship. Control, inquire, take offense. Continue to be afraid.
Is he still with you? Use lethal weapons. Start throwing tantrums and jealousy scenes. And when he certainly wants to leave - become a victim, cry, repent, beg him to stay. I suspect he will definitely run away. And then you will exhale calmly. I knew it, you might think. I am not worthy of love. All the men are goats. And you will begin to suffer again. Until, God willing, your next soul mate will not appear on your horizon.
Do you want it to work out somehow differently with him? Try to stop thinking of yourself as a soul mate. Feel like a whole, self-sufficient person on which your own happiness depends. And start by loving yourself. After all, you deserve it.
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