2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Growing pains.
Our growth in terms of maturation and independence is accompanied by inevitable crises and difficulties. At the initial stage of growth, our parents help us, or they do not help us, which, in principle, does not give us the right to say that we received an advantage in the form of free choice or tough muscle pumping.
Everything has its time and place. If we grow on our own, using intuitively all the forces and ways to achieve our goals and come exactly where we want to come, exactly in such a state as we can afford. Independent growth, without the use of additional means of stimulation or support, leads to harmonious development and to the consistency of the internal and external content of oneself. It is like a tree that grows in a forest, it decides for itself how to grow and uses all the available funds that it can take. It's another matter when this tree is looked after by a gardener in the garden, watered and pruned. Often, in the absence of care, such a tree dies from drought, without forming a sufficiently strong root system for the extraction of deep water and not comparing its proportions of the trunk with the actual amount of water in the earth.
Growing pain is a daily choice in the face of the present and the future; it is to become strong now to become stronger tomorrow. In this case, my pain of growth is my reward for the hard work that I have done to survive and become adapted to life and development in this world. I am well oriented in it and I know exactly where the border of my possibilities lies and where I can count on myself. My pain is an indicator of my effectiveness, and even though outwardly it seems to be something else, I know exactly how much work it cost me the place where I am now.
When I go through life leaning on someone's shoulder, my muscles do not grow, and I do not use my personal intuition, relying entirely on the choice of a strong (oh, not a fact) person who takes care of me. It’s much easier to live this way, and it’s no secret. This type of growth beckons with its attractiveness of painless takeoff and soft landing, but no one ever says how many percent of me will be in that person who softly lands in luxurious conditions. No one talks about this simply because no one knows it, and everyone is sure that everything has remained in its place, but when we dig up a tree by the root, we transport the tree, and leave the root system and connections with feed water in the past. Of course, the tree will begin to grow in a new place, but with artificial irrigation.
Of course, the fact that to pump up your own muscles without hormones, observing the capabilities of your body and training not only muscles with hormones, but also ligaments without hormones, the nervous system for reality and overcoming difficulties, and taking into account all the features of your cardiovascular system, which will develop at the same rate as the muscles. And this is all really complicated. It is difficult to be real and to use only oneself, it is difficult to agree to my limitations and my capabilities, it is difficult to admit that I cannot do something, it is difficult to understand that I don’t need to be able to do everything.
And it hurts. Grow up and understand that you will not reach the sun, and when you do, you will burn out.
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