2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
For a long time my hands have been itching to write a dating guide article for girls. Very often, analyzing the very first days and months in a relationship at consultations, women note not entirely correct perception of partners. Sometimes - this is the usual idealization, sometimes - the illusion of the desired qualities in a potential partner, and sometimes - blinding in love caused by the abundance of hormones of joy. How to calculate men with frivolous intentions and avoid mistakes at the first stages of recognition, so as not to get involved in pseudo-relationships and a waste of precious time !?
In this short article, I have compiled a collection of bells, no, not even bells indicating that you need to leave your acquaintance right from the first dates:
* a man spreads his arms, tries to sit close to you, talks about sex or a kiss from the first meeting;
* proclaims that you are the dream of his whole life and he is ready to marry you outright, without understanding;
* declares unwillingness to build a serious relationship, family, marriage (do not even hope that he will want it with you!);
* goodbye hugs too frankly and kisses without asking (this is already fu!);
* if from the anamnesis it is clear that a man under 40 was not married and had no practice of serious relationships, then run, Lola, run!;
* when he talks about his many girlfriends, he is proud of this and warns that there will always be a connection with them, despite the presence of you in his life, do not think that you will surpass them and win this fight;
* if you see that you are not a priority (not lower than the third place according to the preferences of a man), then you are clearly a weak link, which will be replaced at any suitable opportunity;
* if a man is addicted to: alcohol, drugs, games, religion, universal mission - wish him good luck and a speedy recovery!
* if he reads your messages, but does not answer, ignores calls and does not announce himself first - say goodbye without regret, he is not interested in you;
* when a man is uncertain, does not know what he wants, makes you responsible for the development of the future - this does not bode well, unless, of course, you are looking for a "son";
* if he criticizes you and expresses a desire to change, remake for himself or his fantasies;
* if he blames or shifts responsibility for something onto you, does not try to figure it out, is not capable of constructive dialogue;
* if he does not show pleasant signs of attention (at least flowers and surprises during the candy-bouquet period);
* if a man does not fulfill his promises at the very beginning (even regarding meetings), then it will be even more "fun" later;
* when he does not take into account your wishes and preferences, does not respect your opinion and its existence in principle;
* if he expresses disdain for yours: children, relatives, friends, animals;
I'm sure this is not a complete list, and as you read it, you will mentally supplement it with points from their own experiences. May wisdom be with us, girls!
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