2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
And after all, what was written in her memo on the treatment of a man came true: a reasonable dose of coldness, therapeutic distance, cunning communication, and carefully dosed correspondence.
But, something went wrong. The man "fell for", but she herself began to sour more and more. It's like a well-known anecdote: a Jew did everything that was demanded by God's covenants, but for some reason the Lord was in no hurry to fulfill his requests. "Lord, what else have I done wrong?" - the man pleaded. "It's like that." “What's the matter then?” “But I don't like you!” - God answered honestly.
So our heroine - for some reason did not fall in love, and did not become happy. Despite not fulfilling all the points of the recipe. In that raw, wrong romance, everything was out of place, but why does the heart ache at the memory of it? About that uncalculated happy time when it was not necessary to fulfill the instructions, but on the contrary, everything was done in spite of them. Because it was life, not a game.
And let, according to the laws of the genre, those immature relationships fell apart. But if they told her now that the good fairy can return everything back, the woman would not hesitate for a minute.
A new "experimental" person who has not become a partner is not to blame for anything. Well, she could not love him. He is good, and their communication is built along the main line … She picked up the phone, went to contacts, she didn't even need to look for a familiar number …
Those who have suffered from a codependent relationship should not rush to rush headlong into a new romance. Don't think that past experience can teach you anything. Moreover, if you begin to literally follow certain schemes, build relationships with another person using a cheat sheet. Live your "failure" first. Get a feel for its strengths and weaknesses. Don't rush to make new mistakes.
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