2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Very often, some women (especially those who are 35+), when they want to build a new relationship with a man, commit erroneous actions that they themselves do not consider so. First, and perhaps most importantly, women initially believe that their views how men should interact with them is the ultimate truth. In fact, this has almost nothing to do with reality. What does a woman rely on, building her ideas, on her own experience, the experience of her mother and relatives, the knowledge gained from her friends, and finally images and information gleaned from films or literature. All of the above can be supplemented, but is unlikely to be suitable for achieving the goal - a relationship. Because it has nothing to do with a specific man.
There is one detail that, especially in the beginning with a new man, women almost never pay attention. According to such women, a man should immediately or in the near future begin to solve the problems of a woman (not necessarily global, but), and immediately make concessions to her on the sole grounds that she is a woman. And she herself prefers to do something after, when she looks at what the man is doing. Here's a double-entry bookkeeping, first for her, and then, if you like it, herself.
A man strives to please the woman whom he considers his own, when she becomes a significant part of his life for him, and not just likes and the relationship is at the level of flirting. And he is inferior to her in many respects precisely under these conditions. Especially, brightly, the fact that a man does not make concessions is evident when a man has quite adequate self-esteem. An emotionally immature boy (no matter how old he is), who desperately needs approval from a woman, will give in, and will do it all the time, thus earning the woman's favor.
When the situation does not develop as the woman expected, then her self-esteem decreases, and since the stereotype that men first owe women to women is very persistent, the way to raise their own assessment will almost always be the same - to lower the man in her eyes and preferably in the eyes of others. This is much easier and easier than changing your own views. And accordingly, the thesis arises that the man is bad. (does not correspond to the fictional picture) In the future, this is developed in the form of the belief “all men are goats”. After that, such women usually increase the list of what a man owes by default, this is an insult. But life shows over and over again that this list is fiction. It doesn't work that way.
Another belief of women, which follows from all this, is that men cannot be trusted, it is very tenacious, and leads to the fact that a woman begins to prove to men (we are talking about the former) that she can do everything herself. The question is, why then the relationship?
Or maybe it is really better and more environmentally friendly to abandon fictitious beliefs and patterns and consider the real state of affairs in a relationship where there are always two.
Live with joy! Anton Chernykh
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